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Katherine J. Petersen

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Katherine J. Petersen of Calverton, and formerly of Shelter Island, passed away on Sunday, Jan. 28, 2024. She was 71 years old.

Katherine was born on April 20, 1952, in Queens, N.Y., to Catherine (née Weiss) and Peter Glowacki. She was an only child. After graduating high school, she attended Saint Joseph’s College, where she attained her bachelor’s degree.

On Sept. 15, 1974, she married Paul Petersen and together they had five children. In her professional career, Katherine worked as an accountant for the Town of Shelter Island for eight years. She was also a member and Eucharistic minister at Our Lady of the Isle R.C. Church on Shelter Island.

Predeceased by her husband, Paul; Katherine is survived by her children Christine Beckwith (Stanley) of Shelter Island, Brian Petersen (Shannon) of Manorville, Matthew Petersen (Nicole) of Shirley, Catherine Rasmussen (Daniel) of Shelter Island and Thomas Petersen (Doreen) of Shelter Island; and grandchildren Nathan, Faith, Robert, Courtney, Danielle, Thomas and Joseph.

The family will receive friends Friday, Feb. 2, from 4 to 8 p.m. at DeFriest-Grattan Funeral Home in Mattituck, where funeral services will be held at 6 p.m., officiated by Father Peter DeSanctis.

In lieu of flowers, donations to American Cancer Society would be appreciated.

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Francis J. Meyer

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Francis J. Meyer of Mattituck passed away Thursday, Feb. 1, 2024. He was 88.

The family will receive friends Monday, Feb. 5 from 2 to 4 and 7 to 9 p.m. at DeFriest-Grattan Funeral Home in Mattituck.

The Liturgy of Christian Burial will be celebrated Tuesday, Feb. 6 at 10 a.m. at Our Lady of Good Counsel R.C. Church in Mattituck.

Interment will follow at Sacred Heart R.C. Cemetery in Cutchogue.

In lieu of flowers, donations to Mattituck Fire Department Rescue Squad would be appreciated. Envelopes will be available at the funeral home.

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Robert W. Keith

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Robert W. Keith of Greenport passed away Jan. 28, 2024, at age 97. Raised in Trenton, Mo., he was a graduate of Wentworth Military Academy, the University of Missouri (BS), and Hofstra University (MBA). He was also a CLU, a Fellow of the Life Office Management Association, as well as a graduate (and later a trustee) of the Stonier School of Banking.

His life’s work was in Human Resources in New York; the first 10 years ending as Employment Manager with the Equitable Life, and the balance with Manufacturers Hanover Trust, retiring as Executive Vice President.

He is survived by his beloved wife of 75 years, Helen, and their three children: Melissa Hentges and her husband Michael, Matthew Keith and his wife Jamie, and Andrew Keith; as well as three grandchildren.

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Bud Holman

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Bud Holman beginning in the 1980s served as the de facto Chairman, before there was such a title, of the second oldest law firm in the country, Kelley Drye and Warren where he continued to represent clients on behalf of the firm until his death at the age of 93 on Jan. 23, 2024.

In the decades prior to the 1980s many white shoe New York law firms could rely on long term stable relationships with large corporate clients. Chrysler was Kelley Drye’s. Bud Holman steered Kelley Drye through those times when clients began building internal legal departments, negotiating fees, switching law firms routinely and leading top lawyers to lose allegiances as well. During those challenging times, which for Kelley Drye included the near bankruptcy of Chrysler, Mr. Holman transformed the firm into a global leader in litigation handling cases and advising clients in the U.S., Latin America, Europe and Asia.

Bud Holman was born in 1929 in the Bronx. His mother had been stricken with polio at the age of 5, was raised in a home for disabled children to age 18. She was told she would never marry and would never have children. She proved them incorrect on both counts twice, having two husbands and two children of which Bud was the second. He took his first job at age 5 delivering live chickens for no pay other than hoped-for pennies or nickel tips. In high school in exchange for helping a teacher he was given the right to schedule his own classes which he arranged back to back through 1 p.m. He kept a sandwich in his pocket which he ate in 10 minutes on his way to work at Ligget Drugs where he had a full time job. He continued working until 11 p.m. and arriving home at midnight to eat his one sit down meal of the day and do homework through his days at the City College of New York.

At age 18 he sent a letter inquiring about joining the U.S. Marine Corps. After not hearing back in a timely manner he joined the Naval Reserves. Bud was accepted by Yale Law School as part of the class of 1953. One day in February he received a notice that he was being called to active duty. China had entered the Korean War increasing the need for military personnel. He was able to take his second year law school final exams back to back one day in March, and passing them before shipping out, was able to gain credit for the academic year. He served aboard the USS Juneau, a cruiser designed to withstand the Kamikaze attacks of World War II, patrolled the shipping lanes between Korea and Japan and following the war was stationed in Tokyo. In Japan he was responsible for delivering hand to hand messages to General McArthur.

Following 42 months of active duty Lt. Junior Grade Holman remained in the Naval reserves until his retirement as a Captain in 1983. He returned to Yale Law School upon completion of active duty, graduated fourth in his class of 1956. Mr. Holman clerked for the Honorable Judge Richard Fuld and then joined Kelley Drye in 1958, choosing Kelley Drye on the advice of his sister Charlotte, a Columbia University Law Librarian, who said Kelley Drye was different from the other firms. She counseled him that he would be treated more like family than an employee. His first day at Kelley Drye he was given a desk that had belonged to Thomas Dewey, the former governor of New York, and found himself sharing an office with two other lawyers. One, Doug Thompson, was in his late 50s. Mr. Thompson had suffered a stroke while an associate at Kelley Drye. He never billed a client hour again but retained his desk, his phone and his paycheck until the day he died. His sister had been correct. The partners at Kelley Drye did treat each other like family. Bud carried on that tradition, to which many at Kelley Drye can attest, and made many life-long friends.

Holman was known to be frugal, a product of his Great Depression upbringing. He once earned a large new corporate client during a flight in coach class when the passenger next to him happened to be a like-minded CEO. He delighted in calculating how many of his Chrysler economy cars (a client) could be purchased for the price of a partners new Mercedes (also a client and later an acquirer of Chrysler). He grew his own food, most notably a large annual blueberry harvest he picked with his children and grandchildren, and never stepped over a coin he didn’t pick up. Despite his frugality he was never frugal with his time or generosity. He gave free advice to many, settled often and early to spare clients the legal bills. He was also famous for his messy desk. One partner remarked to his son, “If a messy desk is the sign of genius then your father is perhaps the smartest man I ever met.”

Bud met his wife of 62 years, Kathleen, on the anniversary of D-Day. They met for a drink. She walked into the dining room and sat for dinner. Bud didn’t like ham and he didn’t like steak. He ordered hamsteak, the least expensive item on the menu, as he didn’t have much cash in his pocket and it was prior to the days of credit cards. He told his children often, including in his final days, he and his bride had and still have a great love affair. He is survived by his wife, two children, Dr. Wayne Holman and Jennie Holman, and four grandchildren Summer, Sienna, Hunter and Sylvie. Dr. Holman is the Founder and CEO of Ridgeback Capital, an investment company that invests in companies developing new medicines and co-founder of Ridgeback Biotherapeutics, a firm that has two approved drugs for infectious diseases including Ebola and Covid-19. Jennie is a real estate agent with Brown Harris Stevens.

Bud was famous in life for his perseverance. One of his favorite phrases was “water off a duck.” That was advice he often gave when others he cared for needed to put any difficulty behind them. In his eighties he had surgeries to repair a large hernia and to remove his gallbladder. Each time he scheduled the surgery for the first case in the morning so he could attend early afternoon meetings at the office in which no one was the wiser. At 91 he fell and broke his hip on a slick kitchen floor after removing snow from his cars outside his home. The following evening after a hip replacement surgery he abruptly ended a phone call from his son while in the recovery room to rejoin an ongoing call with a client. “I have a client matter that needs to be wrapped up before year end,” he said. After two Christmases interrupted by the hip fracture and Covid Bud spent the Christmas of 2022 with his wife, children, grandchildren and friends in NYC. He wore his 1952 issue navy watch cap for the duration of the indoor festivities including through dinner, remarking that he never thought he would see Christmas of 2022. He hoped to see another one he said. He passed on Jan. 23 in a home he loved with family and his most recent canine best friend by his side. He was buried by his loving family in the presence of a military honor guard near his mom and step dad, a veteran of World War II.

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Francis “Frank” J. Meyer

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Francis “Frank” J. Meyer of Mattituck died at Peconic Bay Medical Center in Riverhead on Feb. 1, 2024 after a brief illness. He was 88 years old.

He was born in Queens, N.Y. on Jan. 28, 1936 to Frederick and Mary Harvey Meyer. On May 12, 1962, he married the love of his life, the former Marie Gleason, and they made their home in Mastic Beach before moving to Mattituck on March 5, 1970.

Frank was a plumber and operated Frank J. Meyer Plumbing and Heating. He served in the Air National Guard Reserves and was a member of the Mattituck Gun Club and a communicant of Sacred Heart Parish.

Surviving is his wife Marie; daughter Valerie A. DeFio; brother Frederick Meyer; grandchildren Caitlynn “Casper” DeFio, Marie Victoria Meyer and Brendan DeFio; daughter-in-law Violeta Bagaporo and son-in-law Bruce DeFio. He was predeceased by his son Francis “Frank” J. Meyer, Jr. on Feb. 26, 2002.

The family received friends Monday, Feb. 5, 2024 from 2 to 4 and 7 to 9 p.m. at DeFriest-Grattan Funeral Home. The Liturgy of Christian Burial was celebrated Tuesday, Feb. 6, 2024 at 10 a.m. at Our Lady of Good Counsel R.C. Church. Interment in Sacred Heart R.C. Cemetery.

Memorial donations to Mattituck Fire Department Rescue Squad or Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center would be appreciated.

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Vincent E. Jolliver

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Vincent E. Jolliver of Peconic died at home Saturday, Feb. 3, 2024. He was 64.

Graveside services will be held at 11 a.m. Saturday, Feb. 10, at Orient Central Cemetery on Tabor Road and Orchard Street in Orient, officiated by Father Mickey Bancroft.

DeFriest-Grattan Funeral Home in Southold is assisting the family.

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Doris Zito

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Doris Zito of Charleston, S.C. and formerly of Southold, joined the angels Thursday Feb. 1, 2024, with her family by her side. She was 87.

Doris was born Oct. 19, 1936, in Brooklyn to Molly (née Marsarsky) and Joseph Martucci. She was the younger sister to her only sibling, Robert, who predeceased her.

On her 21st birthday she married the love of her life, Dominick P. Zito, in the Bronx. Together they raised four daughters. She was primarily a devoted homemaker and partner to her husband.

In 1968 the family moved from Queens to Southold and purchased the Southold Inn, where Doris was always at her husband’s side as they converted the inn from a tavern and pizza restaurant to a full sit-down highly rated restaurant and inn. Together they befriended many locals that they served and became and well known and loved in the community. Everyone who came to the restaurant was treated as family.

In 1977 Dom and Doris decided to leave the restaurant business in the hands of the Hascoats, who changed the name to La Gazelle. Dominick pursued a career as a psychologist while Doris continued her love for baking and cake decorating and started a small cake decorating business. Over the years she worked in a couple of local bakeries and went to work in the craft departments at the Arcade in Greenport.

Doris had many hobbies including needlework, painting and pottery. She also enjoyed singing, dancing and acting at and was a member of the North Fork Community Theatre. 

Upon retirement in 1996 Dom and Doris relocated to Charleston, S.C. Doris continued her love for crafting and volunteered at Bishop Gadsden retirement community where she assisted the residents with various crafts. She was also a volunteer at the Charleston Aquarium and Bon Secour Hospital in the neonatal department. 

Doris was predeceased by her husband in April 2010. She is survived by her daughters, Nancy Orientale (Gerard) of Southold, Alice Leto of Charleston, S.C., Joan Zito-Decker (Brett) of Charleston, S.C. and Dawn Zito of Palm Coast, Fla.

She was a loving and devoted grandmother of nine grandchildren: Kaela Zito-Manno (Leonardo), Nick Orientale, Danielle Peters (Aaron), Nicole Leto, Karley Leto, Aiden Decker, Genna Decker, Alexis McDonnell and Zander Posner. She was loving great-grandmother to eight great-grandchildren: Roman and Domiano, Gavin and Jacob, Colten, Hayden and Peyton, and Zane. She is also survived by her nephew Joe Zito and several other nieces and nephews; and cousins Nancy Nierenberg and Abbie Greene.

The family will receive friends at James A. McAlister Funeral Home on Savannah Highway, Charleston, S.C. Wednesday, Feb. 7, from 5 to 7 p.m. Liturgy of the Word will be held Thursday, Feb. 8, at 10 a.m. and rite of committal at Holy Cross Cemetery at 11:30 a.m. 

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Gordon Keith Hartge

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Gordon Keith Hartge, 85, born Sept. 20, 1938 passed away Thursday, Jan. 18, 2024.

Keith lived in Morrisville, N.C. and leaves behind his wife Nancy; three children, Jeffrey (Tobi), Mark and Scott (Elizabeth); four grandchildren: Haley (Anthony), Robert, Walker and Russell. He also has two great-grandchildren, Nora and Maeve. Predeceasing Keith were his parents Frederick and Lorraine and two sisters, Charlotte Smith and Shirley Griscavage.

Keith taught Physics and Chemistry for 39 and a half years, 8 and a half in Natrona Heights, Pa. and 31 years at Southold High School, Southold, N.Y.

He graduated from New Kensington High School in 1956 where he played the trombone in the band. Keith received his bachelor’s degree in Science from Slippery Rock College in Pa. His masters degree in Physics was from Marshall University. He then went on to work toward his doctorate in Chemistry at the University of California at Berkeley under Dr. Pimentel.

Keith’s body was cremated and no services are planned.

In lieu of flowers donations may be made to the Food Bank or the ASPCA.

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Mark Edward Hartge

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Mark Hartge, born May 7, 1973 passed away Tuesday, Jan. 23, 2024 from multiple myeloma cancer at Duke University Hospital in Durham, N.C. His body was donated to the Duke University Medical School.

Mark graduated from Southold High School in 1991 as a National Merit Scholar having perfect scores on the Math PSAT, SAT and the Math 1 and 2. He then went to MIT majoring in Mathematics. He was a member of Delta Tau Delta fraternity. Mark worked for JDA Software Company where he rose to be Director of Software Development.

Mark was predeceased by his father Gordon Keith Hartge, and is survived by his mother, Nancy; two brothers, Jeffrey (Tobi) and Scott (Elizabeth); a niece,  Haley (Anthony); and three nephews, Walker, Russell and Robert.

In lieu of flowers donations may be made to the Food Bank or the ASPCA.

A memorial service will be held in Boston, Mass.

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Phaedra Savas

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Phaedra Savas of Southold, passed away peacefully on Jan. 31, 2024.

Predeceased by her loving husband, Anthony. Beloved mother of Cassandra Nash, Christina Early (John) and John (Bernadine). Cherished grandmother of Jessica, Jack and Anthony. 

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Joseph D. Monaco Jr.

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The family of Joseph D. Monaco Jr. is deeply saddened to announce his passing on Feb. 10, 2024. He passed peacefully in his home surrounded by love.

You may have known him as “Joe the Cop,” “Joey Baby,” “JoMo,” “Poppa Joe” or just plain “Dad” – a tough as nails, stubborn and sometimes frustrating man on the outside who was really a caring, sentimental, mush to the people who loved him. We invite you to share your memories of a man who had many chapters in his life — from growing up in Whitestone, N.Y., to serving our country in the U.S. Navy (1958-1963), to serving in the Nassau County Police Department, to raising a family with his ex-wife, Carole, to riding Harleys with the guys and making a wonderful life with his wife, Dorrie, in Southold.

The family will receive friends on Thursday, Feb. 15, from 10 a.m. to noon at DeFriest-Grattan Funeral Home in Southold. Funeral services will be held following the visitation at noon at the funeral home. Interment with U.S. Navy honors and Nassau Police Department honors will follow at Calverton National Cemetery.

As we write this last chapter of his life, we know that his story will live on through the many people he touched. Join us in celebrating his life and remembering him with a smile on your face. We are welcoming anyone who wants to take one last “ride” in his honor to join us on your motorcycles from the funeral home to the cemetery so we can announce his arrival with authority.

He is survived by his loving wife, Dorrie — who made him truly happy from the moment they met; his children, Lori, Kim, Joseph, Bruce and Suzanne; his grandchildren, James, Carly, Julien, Nicholas, Kyle, Stephane, Adrianna and Joseph IV; his great-grandson, Hayden, and his dog, Patches.

In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to the North Fork Animal Welfare League (northforkanimalwelfareleague.org) in his honor.

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Steve Buchanan

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Steve Buchanan of Cutchogue passed away on Wednesday, Feb. 7, 2024. He was 76.

Funeral services will be held Wednesday, Feb. 21 at 10 a.m. at the Church of the Redeemer in Mattituck, officiated by Father Roger Joslin. Interment with U.S. Navy Honors will follow at Calverton National Cemetery. DeFriest-Grattan Funeral Home in Mattituck is serving the family.

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Thomas P. Grattan

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Thomas P. Grattan of Southold passed away Tuesday, Feb. 13, 2024. He was 80.

The family will receive friends on Friday, Feb. 16 from 2 to 4 and 7 to 9 p.m. at the DeFriest-Grattan Funeral Home in Southold, where Southold Fire Department Services will be held at 7:30 p.m.

The Liturgy of Christian Burial will be celebrated Saturday, Feb.17 at 10:30 a.m. at Saint Patrick’s R.C. Church in Southold, officiated by Father Larry Duncklee.

Interment will follow at Saint Patrick’s R.C. Cemetery in Southold.

In lieu of flowers, donations to Southold Fire Department, Southold Historical Society or American Heart Association would be appreciated. Envelopes will be available at the funeral home.

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Robert A. “Bob” Smith

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Robert A. “Bob” Smith, age 78, passed away Sunday Feb. 11, 2024, in Centreville, Md.

He was born in Southampton, N.Y. on Jan. 4, 1946.

Bob is survived by his beloved wife, Gail Hoover-Smith, five loving children: Patrick Smith, Kevin Smith, Brendan Smith, Ryan Smith, Ciaran Smith, and their families. He is also survived by two bonus children, Kristie Murray and Andrew Stagenhorst; his two beloved brothers, James “Jim” Kujawski of Laurel, N.Y. and Pete Kujawski of Rutledge, Tenn., many cherished grandchildren and great grandchildren, and his canine companion, Bailey. He is preceded in death by his loving parents, Ted Kujawski and Emma Smith; his dear son, Damien Smith; and his brothers Ted Kujawski and John Kujawski.

Bob proudly served in the U.S. military for almost 30 years. He was dedicated to several branches: Navy (1963-1965), Army (1965-1968), and Airforce (1968-2014). He found purpose and ministry through his time as a Deacon in the Catholic church for 15 years. One of his favorite pastimes was fishing. Bob loved and adored all his grandkids dearly. His granddaughter, Rebecca Carnell, graciously donated her kidney at age 19 to keep her grandfather alive and well for many years. Bob will be truly missed by all who knew and loved him.

Visitation will be at Fellows, Helfenbein & Newnam Funeral Home, 408 S. Liberty Street, Centreville, Md., Friday, Feb. 16 from 2 to 4 p.m. and 6 to 7:30 p.m., with prayers at 7:30 p.m., followed by Military Honors at 7:45 p.m. Memorial Service will be held Friday, Feb. 23 at 11 a.m., at McGlaughlin-Heppner Funeral Home, 336 Mercy Ave, Riverhead. Burial will follow at St. Johns Evangelist Cemetery, in Riverhead.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations can be made to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105.

Online condolences may be made at fhnfuneralhome.com

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William Brian ‘Boru’ Kelly

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William Brian “Boru” Kelly died peacefully in his home in Southold on Feb. 8, 2024. He was 84 years old.

Born Nov. 30, 1939, to Agatha (Tynan) and Edward Kelly, Brian was the youngest of seven children living on Valentine Avenue in the Bronx. He attended St. Simon Stock Catholic School in the Bronx, where the strict nuns left a lasting impression; conforming did not come naturally to him. During his childhood and formative years, his aunts would often read to him, which fueled a lifelong passion for reading. Brian summered with his family in Southold and eventually moved with his family to their home on Founders Path in 1951, and thereafter absolutely cherished his life, friends and experiences in Southold!

Brian attended Southold High School, earned a GED and went on to study history, earning his undergraduate degree at Southampton College and his graduate degree at NYS University. He was well versed and interested in all historical analogies, but he was a lifelong learner and extremely fond of historic analogies pertaining to his Irish heritage, of which he was extremely proud. Brian served in the U.S. Army in the 82nd Airborne Division from 1957 to 1960 and always exhibited the utmost respect of those that also served their country.

After his time in the service, Brian worked in many capacities, but mostly as a self-employed carpenter. During a stint in St. Thomas in the Virgin Islands, he formed a joint venture called Hammerhead Construction with a good friend and co-conspirator, Vic Power.

Brian was a unique, gifted and creative soul who enjoyed music and writing poetry. He had an eye for beauty and for creative living spaces. His character drew people to him, but books and dogs were his favorite companions. He was unconfined and unconventional in thinking and living. He was insightful and offered good counsel when it was sought, as he was contrarian and an active debater when it was not.

He loved nature and living symbiotically. He had a heart for adventure and a vivid imagination, which drew him to the romance of the sea, taking advantage of every opportunity to set sail upon the beautiful waters of Peconic Bay when the wind was favorable. When returning to his safe haven at Southold Town Creek after a day of sail, his shenanigans while attempting to moor and disembark never disappointed the accustomed onlookers.

Brian is survived by his five children: Shelly Milowski, Coleen Witherspoon, Noreen, Sean and Brendan Kelly; nine grandchildren and two great-grandchildren. 

A celebration of his life will be held in the spring. In lieu of flowers, donations to Southold Police Benevolent Association, Southold Fire Department, Southold American Legion Post 803 or Disabled American Veterans are appreciated.

DeFriest-Grattan Funeral Home in Southold is assisting the family.

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Steve ‘Buck’ Buchanan

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Before dawn on Wednesday, Feb. 7, 2024, Steve “Buck” Buchanan of Cutchogue joined a choir of angels at the age of 76. Steve passed peacefully at East End Hospice Kanas Center with his wife, Karin Stiles Buchanan, and his stepdaughter Kristen Gregory by his side.

Steve “Buck” was our “Miracle Man” after overcoming multiple health emergencies in the recent past. Steve was born in Jackson, Miss., on Feb. 1, 1948, to Lucille Bartz Buchanan and Winn Buchanan. He was one of two children, the other being his brother, Dale. Steve was a graduate of Murrah High School in Jackson, where he was a member of the popular travelers ensemble who toured the country.

Steve attended Ole Miss where he was a cheerleader. He went on to attend Millsaps College where he graduated and obtained his MBA. Steve loved his country and proudly served as a sergeant in the Marines and a lieutenant in the Navy. Faith, family, friends and music were the cornerstone of Steve’s life. At an early age he immersed himself in music, singing in the church choir and singing in the Barbershop Quartet Chorus with his brother Dale. Steve relocated to the North Fork to be with his wife’s family, who had summered on the North Fork since the 1890s in their family home, Shawondassee (“Southwind” in Native American). Serving in the Navy prompted his first purchase of a Sea Ray to explore and fish on the Peconic Bay. Steve expanded his love of performing by joining Shakespeare in The Park as Caesar and other roles. As an avid golfer, Steve was honored to join North Fork Country Club where Karin’s family had been continuous members since 1914.
Steve was a mentor to many, and his contagious sense of humor touched the hearts of all those he met while in his new home on the North Fork. Steve leaves behind his wife, Karin Stiles Buchanan; stepdaughter Kristin Gregory (and her husband, Mike Gregory, and sons Gavin and Chase Gregory); beloved sister-in-law Mary Buchanan (and her daughter Marci Kinchen and son Mike Buchanan). He was so proud of all his three nieces and two nephews and four great-nieces and two great-nephews in Mississippi and Arkansas.

Funeral services will be held Wednesday, Feb. 21, at 10 a.m. at the Church of the Redeemer in Mattituck, officiated by Father Roger Joslin. Interment with U.S. Military Honors will follow at Calverton National Cemetery.

DeFriest-Grattan Funeral Home in Mattituck is assisting the family.

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Ryan Thomas Farrand

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Ryan Thomas Farrand of Commack, and formerly of Greenport, passed away suddenly on Tuesday, Feb. 13, 2024. He was 30 years old. Ryan was born on Aug. 5, 1993, in Southampton, N.Y., to Joan (née Bowes) and Kenneth S. Farrand Jr. He was one of three children. He graduated from Greenport High School.

Predeceased by his grandparents Sally Bowes, Douglas Bowes and Kenneth S. Farrand Sr.; he is survived by his parents, Kenneth and Joan; siblings Robert Farrand (Katy) of Gloucester, Mass., and Stephen Farrand of Greenport; grandmother Betty Farrand; uncle Bob Farrand (Laura); aunts Brenda Cirillo (Joe) and Sally Corbett; cousins Pina, Brendan, Bobby, Anna, Nicole, Jessica (Shawn), and Aeriell (Doc); niece Charlotte; and nephews Ben, Tennessee and Bo.

The family has chosen to remember Ryan’s life privately at this time. A celebration of life will be held at a future date.

DeFriest-Grattan Funeral Home in Southold is assisting the family.

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Charlotte Dickerson

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Charlotte Dickerson of Mattituck was called home peacefully to our Lord on Sunday, Dec. 10, 2023. She was 90 years old.

Born in 1933 to Catherine (Grochowski) and Frank Wolgo on her family’s small Mattituck farm, she was the youngest of four. She held dear the value of family, her Polish heritage, her Catholic faith, her classmates and neighbors throughout her entire life. It was from this platform for which she would live her life, serve her community and retain lifelong friendships.

After graduating from Mattituck, she received a degree in teaching elementary education from New Paltz College. The following weekend in June of 1955 she married the love of her life of 65 years, Allan “Tuffy” Dickerson in Our Lady of Good Counsel R.C. Church in Mattituck. They met when he moved from Southold to Mattituck, and graduated just before her. She taught second grade in Riverhead Roanoke School, and devoted her life with him in raising their four children. Donating her time and talent to school fundraisers, Mattituck Fire Department Ladies Auxiliary and arranging family camping trips near and far while always welcoming family and friends to the table to share a meal. She loved continuing education classes, travel here and overseas, was a longtime member of North Fork Country Club and the women’s 18 hole golf group. She was a Columbiette, and a member of a women’s at-home retreat prayer group for 50-plus years.

She returned to teaching in the classroom both in Lamb’s Gate Nursery School (Southold) and kindergarten in Sacred Heart School (Cutchogue). She was a gifted teacher to all her students, even helping with religious faith formation classes into her 70s and 80s, and could always be seen on the sidelines of her grandchildren’s school functions and sporting events. Prior to COVID, Charlotte could be seen at the OLGC doors of Sunday Mass as a greeter, with her beautiful smile and kind words to welcome everyone in.

She will be truly missed for her charm, zest for life, great sense of humor, keen eye to detail and style, her cooking, and her love of faith, friends and family. She is survived by her four children: Bruce, Jim, Tom and Patti (Homan), and their spouses Katie, Carol, Cathie and Ken; her 13 grandchildren: Nicholas, Julianne, Kyle, Betsy, Kesley, Brianne, Cody, Jennifer, Rachel, Callie, Graham, Jackie and Joe; 10 great-grandchildren; and her nephews Philip Gatz and Richard Paulos. She was predeceased by her siblings, Frank Wolgo Jr., Frances “Tootsie” Gatz and Dorothy Paulos. Charlotte’s family is very grateful to the DeFriest-Grattan Funeral Home in Mattituck and Father Mike Bartholomew at Sacred Heart Parish in helping with her arrangements and funeral, which was held in Our Lady of Good Counsel Church on Saturday, Dec. 16, 2023. Thank you also to all those who attended, donated flowers, cards, food and memorials in her name. She was interred in her family plot at Sacred Heart Cemetery. 

Memorial donations may still be made to St. Jude’s Children Research Hospital and to Sacred Heart Parish in her name.

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Mary Gajek

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Mary Gajek of Greenport, and former longtime resident of Woodside, Queens, died on Friday, Feb. 16, 2024, at Stony Brook Eastern Long Island Hospital. She was 92 years old.

Mary was born on Nov. 6, 1931, in Jesiorko, Poland to Marcella (née Staszkowski) and Stanislaw Marzec. She was one of two surviving children; four siblings predeceased her during World War II from various causes.

In October of 1951 she married the late Thadeusz Gajek in St. Catharines, Ontario, Canada. Together they had two children.

At a younger age, Mary and her family were sent to Siberia as forced labor during World War II. She was a refugee in Siberia, Middle Asia, Persia, India and Tanzania in Africa, after which she emigrated to England and then to Canada, where she met her husband and had her first child, Richard. She then emigrated to New York where she lived in Woodside. She became a mother for the second time, having Christine, and was also a factory worker, waitress and became a businesswoman. 

She was a member of the Ladies Polish Auxiliary in Greenpoint, N.Y. She was also a long-standing Congregant of Corpus Christi R.C. Church in Woodside, as well as member of the church choir there. Mary accomplished the “American Dream” and was helpful to all who knew her.

Predeceased by her husband, Thadeusz, Mary is survived by her children, Richard Gajek (Carol) of Camus, Wash. and Christine Kuhlmann (James) of Greenport; grandchildren Thadeus Gajek, Marcella O’Connor, Mary Kuhlmann and Joseph Kuhlmann; great-grandchildren Darrel O’Connor, Phinneas Gajek, Estelle Gajek, Xander Gajek and Callahan Gajek; and brother Walter Marzec (Czesia) of Ontario, Canada.

The family will receive friends Tuesday, Feb. 20, 2024, from 2 to 4 and 7 to 9 p.m. at DeFriest-Grattan Funeral Home in Southold. The Liturgy of Christian Burial will be celebrated Wednesday, Feb. 21, 2024, at noon at Our Lady of Ostrabrama R.C. Church in Cutchogue, with Father Ryszard Ficek officiating. Interment will follow at Sacred Heart Cemetery in Cutchogue adjacent to the church.

This is a paid notice.

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June McGinty, a former resident of Mattituck, died in Myerstown, Pa., on Feb. 18, 2024. She was 95. 

The Liturgy of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Monday, Feb. 26, at 10 a.m. at Our Lady of Good Counsel R.C. Church in Mattituck. Interment will follow at Calverton National Cemetery, where she will be laid to rest next to her husband Gerald (2017). There will be no public calling hours.

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