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John J. O’Brien

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John J. O’Brien of Wading River died Oct. 31, 2016, at Good Shepherd Hospice in Port Jefferson at the age of 50.

He was born in Plainview Feb. 14, 1966, to Eileen and John J. O’Brien Jr. and was a graduate of Hauppauge High School and Villanova University.

John was general manager of Flexim Americas Corp in Edgewood, N.Y..

Surviving are his wife Linda; children Shannon and Kenny; parents  Eileen and John J.O’Brien Jr. and mother-in-law, Catherine Lundgren; siblings, Tara (John) Seifert, Lisa (Michael) Kelly and Cathy (Matthew) Skinner and nieces and nephews Bryan, Corinne and Megan Kelly, Julie, Abigail and Johnny Seifert and Liam, Aidan and Gavin Skinner.

The family will receive visitors Thursday, Nov. 3, from 7 to 9 p.m. and Friday, Nov. 4,  from 2 to 4 and 7 to 9 p.m. at DeFriest-Grattan Funeral Home in Mattituck. The Liturgy of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10 a.m. Saturday, Nov. 5, at Our Lady of Good Counsel R.C., Church officiated by Monsignor Joseph W. Staudt. Interment will follow at Sacred Heart R.C. Cemetery in Cutchogue.

The family suggests donations in John’s loving memory be made to Good Shepherd Hospice.

This is a paid notice. 


June Hall

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June Hall of Southold died at her home Nov. 1. She was 89.

Funeral arrangements, which are incomplete at presstime, are under the direction of DeFriest-Grattan Funeral Home in Southold.

A complete obituary will follow.

Mildred Kiernan

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Mildred Kiernan of Cutchogue, formerly of Farmingdale, died Oct. 31 at her home. She was 92. 

The daughter of Harry and Mary Annabel, she was born April 6, 1924, in Queens.

Ms. Kiernan was a homemaker and a member of the Sacred Heart Rosary Society and a Cedars Golf Club “Cedarette.”

Family members said she  enjoyed golfing, sewing, gardening, painting and cooking.

Predeceased by her children, Patricia and Brian, Ms. Kiernan is survived by her husband, Thomas; her children Kathy Dowton of Florida, Terry Brockmeyer of California and Barbara Nagle of Cutchogue; her brother, Raymond Annabel of Cutchogue; 10 grandchildren; 10 great-grandchildren and three great-great-grandchildren.

The family will receive visitors Friday, Nov. 4, from 2 to 4 and 7 to 9 p.m. at Coster-Heppner Funeral Home in Cutchogue. A funeral Mass will take place at noon Saturday, Nov. 5, at Our Lady of Good Counsel R.C. Church in Mattituck. Interment will follow at Sacred Heart Cemetery.

Memorial donations may be made to East End Hospice.

Cross memorial service set

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A memorial service for Harold and Clara Cross, formerly of Riverhead and Laurel respectively, will take place at 10 a.m. Saturday, Nov. 5, at Mattituck Presbyterian Church. Burial, with military honors for both, will be held at 11 a.m. Monday, Nov. 7, at Calverton National Cemetery. The procession will leave Mattituck Presbyterian Church at 10 a.m.

Mr. Cross died in 2014 and Ms. Cross died in 2016.

 

 

Thomas O. Monsell

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Lifelong Greenport resident Thomas O. Monsell died Nov. 1. He was 83.

The family will receive visitors Friday, Nov. 4, from 2 to 6 p.m. at Horton-Mathie Funeral Home in Greenport. A funeral service will take place at 11 a.m. Saturday, Nov. 5, at the funeral home, officiated by the Rev. Ben Burns. Burial will follow at Sterling Cemetery.

Memorial donations may be made to Floyd Memorial Library.

A complete obituary will follow.

Local historian, theater director Tom Monsell, dead at 83

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Thomas Monsell was many things, friends said: a former Lindenhurst schoolteacher who wrote a book on how to teach Shakespeare, a director of local theater who expanded Greenporters’ horizons and devoted local historian.

But foremost, like his family before him, he was a proud native son of Greenport Village.

“He was a Greenporter to the marrow of his bones,” said Thomas DeWolfe, a neighbor who would meet with Mr. Monsell in his later years.

Mr. Monsell, who helped to write a popular book on local history with Southold Town historian Antonia Booth, died Tuesday from complications of Parkinson’s disease, friends said. He was 83.

Gail Horton, who was a close friend of Mr. Monsell, said his influence could best be measured by the friendships he kept, many from his childhood years or as an English teacher.

“He still has friends from Greenport High School that come to see him when they come home,” Ms. Horton said.

A Greenport alumnus, Mr. Mansell first gained a librarian degree before returning to school to learn teaching. For years, he taught in the Lindenhurst School District and directed the school’s plays.

One of his former students, Alfred Doblin, later wrote in a newspaper column in praise of the impact Mr. Monsell had on his career.

“I used to think great teachers inspire you,” Mr. Doblin wrote of the continuing support Mr. Monsell shared. “Now I think I had it wrong. Good teachers inspire you; great teachers show you how to inspire yourself every day of your life. They don’t show you their magic. They show you how to make magic of your own.”

After a stint in New York City, Mr. Monsell eventually moved back to Greenport, where he continued his passion for theater, leading productions of unique plays for the local historical society, library and churches and the local theater troupe, “The Stirling Players.”

“I really learned a lot being in his plays,” Ms. Horton said. “I feel the reason I can deliver good speeches nowadays is because of Tom. He taught me how to punch a line and which words to accent.”

He once invited a favored New York City theater critic, John Simon, to Greenport to host a lecture. The critic agreed, Ms. Horton said.

Mr. Monsell also became a repository for local history. In 2003, he collaborated with Ms. Booth on “Images of America: Greenport,” a photographic history book detailing the village’s history.

“He was invaluable,” Ms. Horton said. “You could always go say, ‘Who lives on the house at 527 Manor Place?’ and he could go and tell you the history.”

The two became close friends through Ms. Horton’s husband, to the point where her children referred to him as “Uncle Tom.”

Mr. Monsell was also an avid biker and once went riding across Europe. While living on the North Fork, Mr. Monsell would often bike across the ferry to Shelter Island and then south to East Hampton to attend shows there, Ms. Horton said.

He traveled to England to see plays, she added. But as Parkinson’s robbed him of his mobility, Mr. Monsell longed to return; until his dying day he kept a travel credit card account open and paid, hoping to one day travel again.

In his final years, Mr. Monsell lost control of his hands and couldn’t hold a book or newspaper to read. Still, he asked friends to hold up the papers and turn the pages so he could continue to read.

“He still kept his mind alive,” Ms. Horton said. Friends were inspired by how well he reacted to his disease.

“In spite of all his suffering he never got bitter about his fate,” Mr. DeWolfe said. “He didn’t complain about it.”

Mr. Monsell died “peacefully” Tuesday morning, Ms. Horton said.

“It hasn’t really sunk in,” she said. “He’s a large part of my life.”

Visitation for Mr. Monsell is scheduled for Friday, Nov. 4, from 2 to 6 p.m. at Horton-Mathie Funeral Home in Greenport. A funeral service will take place at 11 a.m. Saturday at the funeral home, officiated by the Rev. Ben Burns.

Burial will follow at Stirling Cemetery. The family has asked memorial donations may be made to Floyd Memorial Library.

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Photo caption: The cover of a history book cowritten by Mr. Monsell in 2003, “Images of America: Greenport.”

Barbara S. Kelsey

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Barbara S. Kelsey of Laurel died at her home  Nov. 1. She was 96.

Graveside services will be held at 11 a.m. Monday, Nov. 7at the Cutchogue Cemetery, officiated by the Rev. Dr. Peter J. Kelley.

Funeral arrangements were entrusted to DeFriest-Grattan Funeral Home in Mattituck.

A complete obituary will follow.

Margaretha “Margaret” J. Fisher

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Lifelong Mattituck resident Margaretha “Margaret” J. Fisher died on Nov. 3, 2016, at Peconic Bay Medical Center in Riverhead. She was 85. 

She was born Nov. 16, 1930, in Mattituck to Adrianus J. and Jerina M. van Ryswyk.

In 1948 she graduated from Mattituck High School and was an honor graduate of the Stenotype Institute of New York in 1950.

On Jan. 17, 1959, she married Herbert A. Fisher, Sr. in Mattituck and together they made their home in Mattituck for many years.

Margaret was a 50 year member of the Order of the Eastern Star and a member of the Mattituck Presbyterian Church. She was a 4-H leader and volunteered with the East End Disabled Benevolent Fund.

Family members said she was an excellent seamstress.

Predeceased by her husband in 2012, she is survived by her children Herbert, Jr. (Gloria) of Mattituck, Susan Tyler (Greg) of Cutchogue and Jerina of Mattituck and three grandchildren, Zachary, Justin and Abby and several nieces and nephews. She was also predeceased by her brothers Eddie, Jack and John van Ryswyk.

The family will receive visitors Monday, Nov. 7, from 2 to 4 and 7 to 9 p.m. at DeFriest-Grattan Funeral Home in Mattituck. Funeral services will be held at 11 a.m. Tuesday, Nov. 8, at at Mattituck Presbyterian Church, officiated by Caren Heacock, pastoral assistant.  Interment will follow at First Presbyterian Church Cemetery in Southold.

Memorial donations to the Salvation Army or St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital would be appreciated.

This is a paid notice. 

 

 

 


Louis Siracusano

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Louis Siracusano of Southold passed away Nov. 4, 2016, after battling a long illness. He lived 85 years and was surrounded by his family to the end.

Louis was born in Astoria, N.Y., Dec. 7, 1930. He attended Stuyvesant High School and graduated with an engineering degree from Philadelphia College of Textiles and Science.

After college, Lou proudly served his country in the U.S. Army, stationed in Germany in military intelligence. He came home for a weekend in September 1955 to marry Rose Marie Mormando. They immediately returned to Germany, where they began their lives together traveling and exploring.

Lou enjoyed a very successful 50-year career in the textile and furniture industry. He was a “name” designer with his Lou Sira line of fabrics that brought tremendous success to several American-made textile manufacturing companies experiencing offshore competition. He was especially known for being a wonderful mentor to young and promising designers and engineers throughout his career.

At a young age, Lou was introduced to Southold by his parents. He enjoyed the many activities that the region had to offer, including sailing, boating, fishing, crabbing, clamming and golf. He shared his love for the North Fork with his family.

In addition to his wife of 61 years, Rose Marie Siracusano (née Mormando), he is also survived by his children, Elizabeth S. Herkenham (William) of Charlton, N.Y., Lucille S. Drobet (Michael) of Cutchogue and Louis Siracusano Jr. of Forest Hills. Louis is also survived by three grandchildren, Carolyn Rose Herkenham, Robert Frederick Herkenham and Nikita Siracusano-Drobet, as well as his sister, Muriel Vigliotti of Port St. Lucie, Fla., and many nieces and nephews.

Lou was one of the good guys in life. He always had a kind and encouraging word for everyone, especially those who were his family members. He will be missed.

The Liturgy of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 11 a.m. Thursday, Nov. 10, at St. Patrick R.C. Church in Southold. Interment with U.S. Army honors will follow at the church cemetery.

The family asks donations be made to Southampton Hospital Regional Dialysis Center, 184 West Montauk Highway, Hampton Atrium, Building C, Hampton Bays, NY 11946, “in memory of Louis Siracusano”.

Arrangements entrusted to DeFriest-Grattan Funeral Home.

This is a paid notice. 

Elizabeth Marie Uhlemann

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Elizabeth Marie “Betty” Uhlemann of Mattituck died Nov. 6, 2016, at her home in Shore Acres. She was 87.

She was born in Brooklyn Dec. 2, 1928, to Mollie Patricia (MacDonald) and Ernest Wilhelm Uhlemann. Raised in Richmond Hill, Queens, she was a graduate of Richmond Hill High School’s Class of 1947.

The longtime North Fork resident had worked in retail sales and service for Gertz, Rimlands, Landscape Adventure and Skelly’s Farmstand.

Betty loved flowers, cats, milk chocolate and meals involving fish. She also had a passion for local beaches, where she would swim and enjoy the sun.

She was known as “Aunt Betty” to the kids of Shore Acres and will be forever remembered for Halloween parties. Friends said she just loved Halloween.

Surviving are her cousin Judy Coates of Manahawkin, N.J.; her caretaker and “best buddy,” Debbie Cassidy of Mattituck; and friends Kathy Ireland of Mattituck and Bert Mileska of Greenport.

Graveside services will be held at 2 p.m. Thursday, Nov. 10, at New Bethany Cemetery in Mattituck.

Memorial donations in Betty’s name may be made to Mattituck Fire Department Rescue Squad or East End Hospice.

DeFriest-Grattan Funeral Home has been entrusted with arrangements.

This is a paid notice. 

Rosemary Zazeski

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Former Cutchogue resident Rosemary Zazeski died Nov. 6 in Queens. She was 80. 

A memorial service will take place Monday, Nov. 14, from 10 a.m. to noon, at Coster-Heppner Funeral Home in Cutchogue with a service taking place at 11:30 a.m., officiated by Father Robert Kuznik. Interment will follow at Sacred Heart Cemetery in Cutchogue.

Memorial donations may be made to AHRC of Suffolk County.

A complete obituary will follow.

Michael Lalli

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Michael Lalli of Orient died Nov. 8. He was 91. 

A funeral service will take place at 11 a.m. Thursday, Nov. 10, at St. Peter’s Lutheran Church in Greenport. Burial will follow at Orient Central Cemetery.

Arrangements were in the care of Horton-Mathie Funeral Home in Greenport.

Memorial donations may be made to Eastern Long Island Hospital or Peconic Land Trust.

A complete obituary will follow.

Audrie Thomas Young

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Audrie Thomas Young

Audrie Thomas Young

Audrie Thomas Young, 88, of Etowah, N.C. passed away Monday, Nov. 7, 2016, at Wake Forest Baptist Medical Center in Winston Salem, N.C.

Born in Flushing, she was a daughter of Mildred Jacob and Evan J. Thomas. She was also preceded in death by a sister, Lorraine Zielinski.

Audrie graduated from Katherine Gibbs School in New York in 1946.

In 1945, she met her husband, Robert, to whom she had been married for 68 years.

She worked as a medical secretary for Huntington Hospital in New York for over 15 years.

In addition to her loving husband, Robert Howell Young, she is survived by two daughters, Robin Young Sears and husband, Peter, of Woodstock, N.Y. and Cynthia Y. Sadrakula and husband, Michael, of Bedford, N.Y.; two granddaughters, Taylor Young Sears and Elizabeth Lee Sadrakula; one sister, Joyce Wright of Kingston, N.Y. and several nieces and nephews.

A service of remembrance was held Nov. 12 at Shuler Funeral Home.

In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to Four Seasons Hospice Foundation, 571 South Allen Road Flat Rock, NC 28731.

To offer online condolences please visit www.shulerfunealhome.com, Shuler Funeral Home is assisting the family.

Joseph F. Singleton

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Joseph F. Singleton of Mattituck died Nov. 21 after a brief illness. He was 80.

The family will receive visitors Wednesday, Nov. 23, and Friday, Nov. 25, from 2 to 6 p.m. each day at DeFriest-Grattan Funeral Home in Mattituck. The Liturgy of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 9 a.m. Saturday, Nov. 26, at Our Lady of Good Counsel R.C. Church in Mattituck, officiated by Monsignor Joseph W. Staudt. Interment will follow at Saint Patrick’s Cemetery in Huntington.

Memorial donations to Mercy Haven, 859 Connetquot Avenue Suite 10, Islip Terrace, NY 11752, www.mercyhaven.org or North Fork Parish Outreach, 69465 Main Road, Greenport, NY 11944, would be appreciated.

A complete obituary will follow.

John A. Sepenoski

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John A. Sepenoski of Southold died Nov. 21. He was 77.

The family will receive visitors Friday, Nov. 25, from 4 to 8 p.m. at DeFriest-Grattan Funeral Home in Southold., where members of the Southold Fire Department will conduct firematic services at 7:30 p.m.

Memorial donations may be made to Southold Fire Department or Southold Fire Department Rescue Squad.

A complete obituary will follow.


Antonia S. Booth

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Antonia S. Booth of Southold died at her home Nov. 25. The Southold Town historian was 87 years old.

The family will receive visitors Tuesday, Nov. 29, from 2 to 4 and 7 to 9 p.m. at DeFriest-Grattan Funeral Home in Southold. The Liturgy of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10 a.m. Wednesday, Nov. 30, at Saint Patrick R.C. Church in Southold.

A complete obituary will follow.

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Dylan Coffman Whittington

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Dylan Coffman Whittington passed away suddenly at his parent’s home Nov. 25, 2016. 

He was born to Joel and Judy (Hau) Whittington June 10, 1983.

He graduated from Southold Junior-Senior High School in 2001 and attended Johnson and Wales in Providence, R.I. He later enrolled in the Commercial Diving Academy in Jacksonville, Fla., where he graduated with honors. He loved his diving career, which led him to the water along the Gulf and East coasts. He lived in New Orleans and later Philadelphia, Pa.

In addition to his parents, he is survived by his brother, Ethan Whittington of Orient and two nieces. Dylan enjoyed a special relationship with his maternal aunt and uncle, Edward and Doreen Hau of Nesconset, N.Y. He also is survived by aunts and an uncle in Delaware and Maryland. Dylan shared his life and love with Amy Cutler of Philadelphia, Pa.

Dylan was a joyful man and jokester, always making people laugh. He loved with his whole being. Over his life and career he touched and enriched many lives and he will be missed by many.

No services will be held presently, but a celebration of his life will be planned at a later date. His ashes will be scattered in the ocean that he loved.

DeFriest-Grattan Funeral Home in Southold assisted the family.

This is a paid notice. 

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Barry W. Lehr

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Barry W. Lehr

Barry W. Lehr

Barry W. Lehr of Southold died Nov. 23, 2016, at the Kanas Center for Hospice Care in Quiogue. The lifelong North Fork resident was 82 years old.

He was born in Greenport Oct. 8, 1934, to Margaret (Smith) and David Lehr. In 1952, he graduated from Southold High School and later married Beverly Capon April 15, 1955, at First Presbyterian Church in Southold. Together they made their home in Southold.

Barry worked at Tryac Truck & Equipment and John Deere. He was a member of the Southold Fire Department and the Mattituck Gun Club for over 50 years and a former member of the Orient Gun Club.

Barry was an avid fisherman and hunter. He loved traveling to Alaska. He loved his grandchildren and great-grandchildren. They were his pride and he was always showing off pictures of them.

Surviving are his wife, Beverly; his daughter, Jean Walters (Louis Sr.) of Southold;  his brother, Bruce Lehr of Southold; two grandchildren, David Kramkowski (Carolyn) of St. Charles, Mo., and Kristin Witczak (Chris) of Cutchogue; and four great-grandchildren, Kaitlin Kramkowski, Blake Witczak, Madison Witczak and Natalie Kramkowski.

Services will be held in the summer of 2017.

Memorial donations can be made in his name to the Kanas Center for Hospice Care or Southold Fire Department.

DeFriest-Grattan Funeral Home is assisting the family.

 

This is a paid notice.

 

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Joseph F. Singleton

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Joseph F. Singleton of Mattituck died Nov. 21, 2016, at Kanas Center for Hospice Care in Quiogue after a short illness. He was 80.

Born in Mount Kisco, N.Y., April 22, 1936, he was the son of Matthew Francis and Margaret (Clifford) Singleton.

For 50 years, Joseph served the communities and children of Long Island, as superintendent of schools and deputy superintendent of Western Suffolk BOCES.

He was also a longtime parishioner of Our Lady of Good Counsel R.C. Church in Mattituck, where he was a member of the finance committee and also served as a board member for Mercy Haven.

Formerly of Huntington, he had been a Mattituck resident for the past 20 years.

He is survived by his wife of 58 years, Mary Lou (née Keane); children Joseph F., Jeffrey (Jeannine), James (Natercia), Timothy (Jessica), Christopher (Jennifer); his sister, Eileen and ten grandchildren. He was predeceased by his son John.

The family received visitors Nov. 23 and 25 at DeFriest-Grattan Funeral Home in Mattituck. The Liturgy of Christian Burial was celebrated Nov. 26 at Our Lady of Good Counsel R.C. Church by Monsignor Joseph W. Staudt. Interment followed at St. Patrick R.C. Cemetery in Huntington.

Memorial donations to Mercy Haven, 859 Connetquot Avenue, Suite 10, Islip Terrace, NY 11752 mercyhaven.org or North Fork Parish Outreach, P.O. Box 584, Greenport, NY 11944 would be appreciated.

This is a paid notice. 

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Virginia Crossley Byrnes-Osler

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Virginia Crossley Byrnes-Osler

Virginia Crossley Byrnes-Osler

Virginia “Ginny” Crossley Byrnes-Osler of Laurel, formerly of East Northport and Great Neck, passed away Nov. 26, 2016, at the age of 87.

Ginny was born May 26, 1929, and was the daughter of Agnes and Jack Crossley. She grew up in Great Neck, graduated from Great Neck High School and attended Marymount College.

After her marriage to Edward J. Byrnes, the “boy next door” and former kindergarten classmate, she settled in East Northport to raise her four boys.

Ginny worked for a group of gynecologists and was an active volunteer serving as an EMT in the Commack Ambulance Corps.

She retired to Laurel with her husband Ned and together they traveled around the world and were active members of North Fork Country Club in Cutchogue and Our Lady of Good Counsel R.C. Church in Mattituck.

Ginny enjoyed entertaining – be it a bridge lunch, a meeting of the Minapauge or a dinner with friends and family. Whatever the occasion, Ginny was always sought out and welcomed for her humor in particular, but probably more so, for the gift of making you feel better for just having been with her. It’s nice to know there are such people that are especially nice to be with such very special people in these changing times.

At the age of 82 she fell in love once again and filled every moment with new adventures dancing on the arm of “Mr. Osler.” From riverboat tours in Europe, to a trip to the Grand Canyon with grandchildren, Ginny lived each day with Bill to the fullest. They were married on Jan. 31 of this year.

Ginny was the loving wife of Bill Osler; the widow of Edward “Ned” Byrnes; the mother of Jack (Laurie), Jim, who predeceased her, Tom (Karen) and Richard Byrnes (Michael McDyer, Drew Allt); the stepmother of Mark, Darryl (Mary), Bruce (Jennifer), Scott (Julie) Osler and grandmother of Megan (Andrew), Tim, Brian, Lauren and Emilee Byrnes and Sean, Bryan, Kyle, Boden, Brandon, Madison, Jordan, Ryan and Colleen Osler; great-grandmother of Anna; sister of Joan Sheehan and Barbara Kelling and sister-in-law of Ann Garman.

The family will receive visitors today, Thursday, Dec. 1, from 2 to 4 and 7 to 9 p.m. at Coster-Heppner Funeral Home in Cutchogue. A funeral mass will take place at 11 a.m. Friday, Dec. 2, at Our Lady of Good Counsel R.C. Church in Mattituck.

Memorial donations may be made to the Avon 39 Breast Cancer Walk, Boston 2107, team ‘Cuz we have Faith.

This is a paid notice. 

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