Ann Krom of Laurel died Oct. 2, 2022. She was 77.

Arrangements are pending. DeFriest-Grattan Funeral Home in Mattituck is assisting the family.

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Vasken Antranig Arslanian of Mattituck died Oct. 7, 2022. He was 84.

The family will receive visitors Tuesday, Oct. 11, from 1 to 3 p.m. at DeFriest-Grattan Funeral Home in Mattituck. His daughter will give a eulogy at 2:30 p.m.

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Avid reader and epistolarian, inspired storyteller and retired New York City high school teacher and counselor, Anna L. Montes de Oca’s love for her family did not come to an end with her death. Anna passed away on Oct. 7, 2022, peacefully at home, surrounded by her loved ones who will continue to honor her life by sharing those stories.

Anna was born in New York City to German immigrant parents, making her a first-generation American in her family. She graduated from Bayside High School in Queens and completed her bachelor’s degree from Hunter College. She also completed a master’s degree in education from New York University and a second master’s degree in guidance and counseling from Lehman College, while raising three children and teaching. She shared her passion for learning with her three children and with generations of high school students in New York City’s public schools.

Every morning, Anna religiously read The New York Times and sipped coffee — even during her brief illness. She also took great pleasure in discussing current events on national and world affairs and watching the wetland wildlife from the sitting room in her home in Greenport, N.Y.  She was a lifetime member of Custer Institute and Observatory, where she served as a board member for many years and donated generously.

Anna was predeceased by her parents, Anna (Ruhland) Koester and Alexander Koester; her brother, Frank Koester; and cousin Rosemary Ring; and is survived by her children, Roland F. Montes de Oca, Michele C. Verticchio and Anne D. (Verticchio) Spooner; daughters-in-law Cora Gibney-Montes and Kerry Spooner; and son-in-law Jonathan Prihoda. She was the cherished grandmother of Jaden Blake Montes, Taigh James Montes and Emerson Alexander Spooner and beloved cousin of Ray Gerke and Robert Gerke.

The family would like to express our deepest gratitude for the wonderful care and help given by East End Hospice. If desired, friends can make memorial contributions in Anna Montes de Oca’s name to East End Hospice (eeh.org) or Tri-State Chapter-National Scleroderma Foundation (scleroderma.org/tri-state-chapter).

Reposing will be held Thursday, Oct. 13, from 2 to 4 and 7 to 9 p.m. at Tuthill-Mangano Funeral Home in Riverhead, with a funeral service at 8 p.m. Interment will take place at 11:30 a.m. Friday, Oct. 14, at Calverton National Cemetery.

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When that envelope arrived in the mail you knew what it would be. The writing on the manila mailer was unmistakable — that blocky textured script. Within you would find a curated selection of news clippings with personalized notations. It was one of the many ways Dick shared affection with those he loved. 

Richard “Dick” Conklin Reeve passed away peacefully on Oct. 6, 2022, at 76 years old. He will be greatly missed by his wife of 51 years, Allyson “Wendy” Reeve; his children, Ken and Jessica, and their spouses; and his five grandchildren. 

The youngest son of Harold R. Reeve Jr. and Margaret Conklin Reeve, Dick was born at Greenport Hospital May 21, 1946. He graduated from Mattituck High School in 1964 and served as a Navy Seabee from 1969 to 1971 after graduating from Ft. Lauderdale University in 1969. The plan was to graduate from Bucknell University in 1968, but Dick took his obligations as social director for Kappa Delta Row fraternity quite seriously and his academic trajectory changed in the course of fulfilling those duties. He was predeceased by many close fraternity brothers who remained lifelong friends and family. 

Except for college and military service, Dick built his life on the North Fork of Long Island. 

He built many other people’s lives there, too, or at least their homes. Carrying on the family business established by their grandfather, Dick and his two brothers, John and the late Jim Reeve, built some of the most beautiful homes in the Hamptons, homes featured in architectural magazines for their design and fine craftsmanship. A hands-on construction supervisor, he devoted many long hours six days a week to making Harold R. Reeve & Sons thrive. On his day off, this freckled redhead could often be found soaking up the sun in his backyard lounger. Sunscreen be damned. After more than 40 years of devoted service, the Reeve brothers made the difficult decision to close the business and that chapter of their lives in 2012. 

Throughout his life, Dick always found time for entertaining. He lavished attention on his friends and family, quick with a refreshing drink, hot mustard or homemade horseradish. You wouldn’t have struggled to pick him out at the party with his striped party shirts and lively sport jackets. 

He loved traveling to warm places. Anywhere with a palm tree would do. Once on scene in a tropical locale, he would don his Panama Jack hat and channel his alter ego, “Richard Bond.” The only rule was that revelers must respect the late afternoon lull known as National Nap Time (NNT). 

And so, as Dick closes his eyes for a much-deserved rest in the final NNT, the family requests that you pour yourself a drink, clip out an article or two, and mail them to a loved one. Preferably in a manila envelope. There will be no formal service. In lieu of flowers, please consider donating to the Cutchogue Fire Department Rescue Squad or Cutchogue New Suffolk Free Library. 

DeFriest-Grattan Funeral Home in Mattituck is serving the family.

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Greenport resident Mary Rose Butler died Oct. 9, 2022. She was 89.

The family will receive visitors Thursday, Oct. 13, from 3 to 7 p.m. at Horton-Mathie Funeral Home in Greenport. A funeral service will take place Friday, Oct. 14, at 10 a.m. at St. Agnes R.C. Church in Greenport, with Father Piotr Narkiewicz officiating.

A complete obituary will appear next week.

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Joseph L. Slavonik, a lifelong Southold resident, died Sunday, Oct. 9, 2022. He was 84 years old.

Joseph was born on Nov. 21, 1937, in Greenport to Florence (Kwasneski) and Joseph J. Slavonik. He was one of two children. Raised in Southold, he graduated from Southold High School.

On May 4, 1963, he married the love of his life, Diane E. Sayre, and together they had four children. He worked as a mason for the General Building Laborers Local 66 in Melville, N.Y. He was a volunteer with Southold Fire Department and a member of Living Water Church in Aquebogue.

Predeceased by his wife, Diane, Joseph is survived by his children, Diana MacCulley (John) of Aquebogue, Joseph Slavonik Jr. (Heidi) of Riverhead, Robert Slavonik (Jane) of Sound Beach, N.Y., and Janice Foglia (Scott); three grandchildren, Thomas Hingle, Michael Hingle and Jennifer Smither; and sister Susan Danowski of New Suffolk.

His family wrote, “Our father, a true friend and faithful man. Faithful to his word and family. His word was his bond and could be counted on. He had a heart of gold, and those of us who knew him could see and feel it. Thank you, father, for the memories and conversations over the years that brought us together. You will be missed. Until we meet again, we love you and always will. God keep you.”

The family has chosen to remember Joseph’s life privately at this time. A celebration of Joseph’s life will be held at a later date. DeFriest-Grattan Funeral Home in Southold is serving the family.

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A celebration of life for Maureen Leahy Lademann of Cut­ch­ogue will be held Sunday, Oct. 23, from noon to 4 p.m. at Sophie’s Restaurant in Southold. Ms. Lademann died Dec. 13, 2021, at age 56.

DeFriest-Grattan Funeral Home in Mattituck is assisting the family.

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Longtime Greenport resident Raymond L. Chute died Oct. 14, 2022, at San Simeon by the Sound Center for Nursing and Rehabilitation in Greenport. He was 72.

Born April 2, 1950, at Eastern Long Island Hospital in Greenport, he was the son of Catherine (Bauer) and Raymond Chute Sr. 

After high school, he attended college for one year. He served with the U.S. Navy.

He and his wife, Victoria, were married Jan. 12, 1975, in Greenport.

Mr. Chute was employed by the New York State Department of Transportation in Riverhead for 23 years as a worker and foreman.

Family said he enjoyed fishing, camping and NASCAR.

He is survived by his wife; his sons, Brian Kavanagh of Buffalo, N.Y., Gregory Kavanagh of Sheldon, Iowa, and Carl Chute of Wading River; his brother, Robert, of Greenport; and six grandchildren.

The family will receive visitors Thursday, Oct. 20, from 5 to 7 p.m. at Horton-Mathie Funeral Home in Greenport. A funeral service will take place at 10 a.m. Friday, Oct. 21, at St. Agnes R.C. Church in Greenport, with Father Piotr Narkiewicz officiating. Burial will follow at Calverton National Cemetery.

Memorial donations may be made to Greenport American Legion and the Greenport Fire Department Rescue Squad.

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Wendy W. Smith, 50, of Greensboro, N.C., a loving mother and friend, unexpectedly passed away in her sleep at her home in Southold on Friday, Oct. 7, 2022.

Wendy was born on Jan. 15, 1972, in Greensboro, N.C., to Richard and Glenda Wilson. Graduating from Page High School in 1990, she was accepted at the University of North Carolina at Charlotte on full scholarship for swimming.

After graduating with a bachelor’s degree in management information systems, she began her career at Unisys as a quality assurance specialist. With her love of computers, quick wit and great laugh, she quickly moved up the ranks in several positions until landing at Net Smart Technologies, where she ended her career as head of quality assurance for the entire company.

Wendy will be remembered most for the love of her son, her beautiful smile, her love of cooking, as well as her passion for competitive swimming. Wendy competed at all levels of swimming, beginning at a very young age. An incredible swimmer, she competed mostly in the butterfly and the mile swim, excelling at both. She continues to this day to hold several records in the city of Greensboro as well as many at the University of North Carolina-Charlotte.

Wendy was predeceased by her mother, Glenda, and father, Richard. She is survived by her son, Mickey Smith; and family including Josh Smith, Susan Rizzo, Kathryn Piecuch, Adam Smith, Robin Puckett and Melissa Pendry; in-laws John and Maureen Smith; as well as her niece Madison and nephews Rory, Liam and Nolan.

A celebration of life and memorial service will be held from 10 a.m. to noon Saturday, Oct. 22, at DeFriest-Grattan Funeral Home in Southold.

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John Philip Dietzel, a former resident of Riverhead and Southold, died Oct. 13, 2022, at San Simeon by the Sound Center for Nursing and Rehabilitation in Greenport. He was 92.

Born Dec. 23, 1929, in Brooklyn, he was the son of Adam and Fannie (Haeni) Dietzel.

John served with the U.S. Army from 1952 to 1954. He worked as a certified public accountant for various companies.

He was a member, volunteer and treasurer for Holy Trinity Episcopal Church in Greenport, and was a member of the Masons for 75 years.

He met his future wife, Dorothy (née Zimmermann), at Queens College, where they were both studying accounting. They just celebrated their 65th wedding anniversary. He lived in Glendale; New Hyde Park for 30 years; Southold for 15 years; and then Riverhead for 16 years.

He is survived by his wife, Dorothy; his son, David Dietzel (Beth); and two grandchildren, Elizabeth Angus and Kathryn Dietzel.

The family received visitors Oct. 16 at Tuthill-Mangano Funeral Home in Riverhead. A funeral service took place Oct. 17 at the funeral home, with the Rev. Roger Joslin officiating. Burial, with military honors, followed at Nassau Knolls Cemetery in Port Washington.

Memorial donations may be made to Masonic Medical Research Institute, 2150 Bleecker St., Utica, NY 13501; or Holy Trinity Episcopal Church, 768 Main St., Greenport, NY 11944.

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East Marion resident Joseph J. Santora Jr. died Oct. 15, 2022, at his home. He was 84.

Mr. Santora lived in the Orient/East Marion area for 32 years.

Born Sept. 19, 1938, in Long Beach, he was the son of Rose (Loccaso) and Joseph J. Santora Sr.

He held a master’s degree from Boston University and served with the U.S. Army 2nd Armored Division for four years, attaining the rank of first lieutenant. 

He and his wife, JoAnn, were married Dec. 22, 1995, in Orient.

Mr. Santora worked for 40 years as a licensed certified social worker and psychotherapist in Southold.

He belonged to the New York City Police Benevolent Association. Family said he enjoyed antique cars, boating, RV camping, photography and gardening.

Predeceased by his sister, Rosemarie, and brother Dino Santora,he is survived by his wife; his daughter, Jody Falk of Merrick; sons Joseph J. “Jamie” Santora III of Chambersburg, Pa., and Robert Santora of Fort Lauderdale, Fla.; stepdaughter Dina Reilly of Southold; stepson Frank Rizzo of Commack; brother Frank Santora; and six grandchildren.

The family will receive visitors Friday, Oct. 21, from 3 to 7 p.m. at Horton-Mathie Funeral Home in Greenport. The Rev. Kelly will officiate.

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James R. Woodhull of Southold died Oct. 17, 2022. He was 73.

The family will receive visitors Thursday, Oct. 27, from 4 to 7 p.m. at DeFriest-Grattan Funeral Home in Southold. Funeral services will take place Friday, Oct. 28, at 11 a.m., at First Presbyterian Church of Southold with the Rev. Dr. Peter Kelley officiating. Interment will follow at Southold Presbyterian Cemetery.

Memorial donations may be made to North Fork Animal Welfare League or East End Hospice.

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Alease Grigg of Riverhead, formerly of Mattituck, died Oct. 19, 2022. She was 89.

Viewing services will be held from 10 to 11 a.m. Tuesday, Oct. 25, at DeFriest-Grattan Funeral Home in Mattituck, where homegoing services will follow at 11 a.m.

Interment will take place at New Bethany Cemetery.

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James R. Woodhull Sr. of Southold passed away Oct. 17, 2022, peacefully at home. He was 73 years old.

James was born May 12, 1949, in Greenport, N.Y., to Richard and Jean (Tuthill) Woodhull. He graduated from Mattituck High School in 1967, received his associate degree from SUNY/Alfred, a bachelor’s degree from University of Georgia and a master’s degree from SUNY/Stony Brook. 

He was a professor of engineering at SUNY/Farmingdale for 44 years and taught GED classes at Riverhead Correctional Facility for many years. He also spent much of his time in real estate. James was an active member of Southold Kiwanis Club. He loved the water and was an avid boater. 

James is survived by his wife, Judith (Wilsberg) Woodhull; his children, Kimberly (Ken) Mango, Amy (Mark) Schill and James (Annmarie) Woodhull; seven grandchildren, Ryan and Lucas Leidahl, Stephen, Matthew and Brian Schill, Tyler Woodhull and Reese Thompson, all of Southold. He is also survived by his brothers, Richard (Denise), of Lake Placid, Fla.; G. Thomas (Ruthanne), of Mattituck, N.Y.; and Terry (Laura), of Cutchogue, N.Y.

The family will receive visitors Thursday, Oct. 27, from 4 to 7 p.m. at DeFriest-Grattan Funeral Home in Southold. Funeral services will be held at 11 a.m. Friday, Oct. 28, at First Presbyterian Church of Southold, with the Rev. Dr. Peter Kelley officiating. Interment will follow at Southold Presbyterian Cemetery.

Memorial donations may be made to North Fork Animal Welfare League or East End Hospice.

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Lifelong Laurel resident Ann T. Krom died Sunday, Oct. 2, 2022. She was 77 years old.

Ann was born Jan. 17, 1945, in Greenport to Emily A. (Falkowski) and Barney J. Sidor. She married Marvin L. Krom on Jan. 12, 1965, in Saratoga Springs, N.Y. Together they had two children. 

She was a member of Our Lady of Ostrabrama R.C. Church and a member of the Sacred Heart Rosary Society. 

Predeceased by her parents and husband, Ann is survived by her children, Laurie Krom (Carl) of Laurel and Richard J. Krom (Natalie) of Wellington, Colo., and grandchildren, Blake Hinman, Colton Krom, Madison Hansen and Hailey Krom.

The family received visitors Oct. 7 at DeFriest-Grattan Funeral Home in Mattituck. The Liturgy of Christian Burial was celebrated Oct. 8 at Our Lady of Ostrabrama R.C. Church in Cutchogue. Interment followed at Sacred Heart R.C. Cemetery in Cutchogue.

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John R. McNulty of Laurel died Oct. 19 at his home. He was 90.

The family will receive visitors Thursday, Nov. 3, from 2 to 4 and 7-9 p.m. at DeFriest-Grattan Funeral Home in Mattituck.

The Liturgy of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10 a.m. Friday, Nov. 4, at Our Lady of Good Counsel R.C. Church in Mattituck.

Interment will follow at Sacred Heart R.C. Cemetery in Cutchogue.

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John “Checkers” Simchick of Cutchogue died Oct. 24, 2022. He was 78.

The family will receive visitors Wednesday, Oct. 26, from 4 to 8 p.m. at DeFriest-Grattan Funeral Home in Mattituck. Funeral services will be held at 11 a.m. Thursday, Oct. 27, at the funeral home. Interment will follow at Cutchogue Cemetery.

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Mary R. Park was born Mary Rolle in Riverhead in 1933, the daughter of Antone and Mary Rolle of Jamesport. She graduated from Riverhead High School in 1950. She married Richard X. Park in 1954. 

Mary worked at the Modern Snack Bar in Aquebogue for over 20 years and then as a school bus driver for Riverhead Central School District. She enjoyed volunteering to read to children at the library, delivering Meals on Wheels to seniors, and worrying about her family. Mary and Richard moved to South Carolina to enjoy their retirement. 

On her final day, she was with her children, shared a smile with her grandchildren and enjoyed a bowl of strawberry ice cream at the end of the day. She passed peacefully in her sleep at her home on Aug. 18, 2022, after a well-lived life.

Mary was predeceased by her husband of 62 years, Richard X. Park. She is survived by her children, Mary Clare Park, Ann Park, Patricia Park-Wagner and Richard A. Park; and her grandchildren, Miranda Wagner, Liam Wagner, Owen Wagner, Samantha Park and Evan Park. 

Mom, you are loved, and you will be missed. Rest in peace. 

A funeral Mass will be held at 9:30 a.m. Monday, Nov. 7, at St. John the Evangelist R.C. Church in Riverhead, followed by interment of both Richard X. and Mary R. Park’s ashes at Calverton National Cemetery.

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Bob Travers, aka Hurricane Bob, of Black Mountain, N.C., passed away on Oct. 15, 2022, at the age of 60, after an arduous battle with cancer.

He was born on May 21, 1962, in Mineola, Long Island, N.Y., to Mary and Jim Travers. The youngest of five siblings, he was predeceased by both parents and brother Jim.

His fondest childhood memories were of his summers at his family’s home in Southold, N.Y. He was most happy while performing onstage with his two sons, displaying how proud he was.

Bob was a gifted musician who began playing guitar at the age of 9. He became a professional musician in his teens, playing and touring his entire life. Bob’s high-energy singing, impeccable guitar playing and larger-than-life stage presence entertained people all over the country. He was a blues player who played a mean slide guitar. He also had a rockabilly band called the Magdaddys.

Dubbed “Hurricane Bob” by Richmond, Va., fans, it was no accident when one evening during a blistering jam session in a local blues club, the rains hit. The storm outside and inside was Hurricane Bob.

Bob married the love of his life, Kristie Isenhour, and they had two children, twins Eric Robert Travers and Kyle Patrick Travers. He taught them to play various instruments when they were young and they, in turn, are now both talented professional musicians.

Bob is survived by sons Eric and Kyle; grandson Jackson; Kristie Isenhour; his three sisters, Kathleen Marie Travers, Barbara Jean Travers and Janet Frances Travers; and many nieces and nephews.

There will be a musical event celebrating Bob’s life in North Carolina, which will be announced at a later date.

Rest in peace, Bob. We love you.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to The Rhythm and Blues Foundation: rhythmandbluesfoundation.org.

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Timothy Hough of Rocky Point died at his son’s home in Mattituck Wednesday, Oct. 26, 2022. He was 71 years old.

Timothy was born on October 23, 1951 in New York, N.Y., to Helen (née Wall) and Clarence L. Hough. He was one of seven children. He graduated from Longwood High School in Middle Island, N.Y., and then attended Brown University in Providence, R.I. He worked as an operating engineer for the Local 138 for over 40 years.

Predeceased by his parents and a brother, Robert Hough, Timothy is survived by his children, Robert Hough (Michelle) of Mattituck, Timothy Hough (Natalie) of Mattituck, Dr. Katie Hough Owens (Mark) of Mattituck, Alex Khlystov (Julie) of Ohio and Victor Hough of Colorado Springs; grandchildren Addia Hough, Robert Hough, Lily Hough, Emelyn Hough, Charlotte Hough, Audrey Owens, Maryann Khlystov and Scarlet Khlystov; siblings Peter Hough of Shoreham, N.Y., Jane Oneal of Coram, N.Y., Melinda Cowart of Coram, N.Y., Karen Hough of Florida and Edward Hough of Florida; and his wife, Marina Bogatikova Hough.

The family received friends Oct. 29 at DeFriest-Grattan Funeral Home in Mattituck, where funeral services were also held. Interment was private.

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