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Jeanne Rutkowski

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Jeanne Rutkowski of Southold died Dec. 29. She was 72.

Visitors will be received Wednesday, Jan. 1, from 5 to 7 p.m. at DeFriest-Grattan Funeral Home in Southold and will continue Thursday, Jan. 2, from noon to 12:30 p.m. A funeral service will follow at 12:30 p.m., Caren Heacock officiating. Interment will follow at St. Patrick R.C. Cemetery in Southold.

Memorial donations may be made to Eastern Long Island Hospital Memorial/Tribute Program.

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Valerie A. Bartolacci

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Valerie A. Bartolacci, a resident of Upper Nyack, N.Y., and Laurel, Long Island, passed away Dec. 9, 2019, at the age of 80 following a brief illness.

Born Jan. 5, 1939, in St. Albans, Queens, she was the daughter of Harry and Florence Wissler.

Valerie attended Archbishop MacDonald High School in Brooklyn and SUNY/New Paltz, graduating with a degree in education. Valerie was a member of the Arethusa Sorority and worked as a second-grade teacher in Hempstead, N.Y.

Valerie met her husband of 55 years, A. Ralph Bartolacci, in New York City at the one and only Catholic Alumni event that Ralph attended. She informed Ralph that she was “geographically undesirable” because she lived out in Long Island and he lived in upstate New York. This did not deter Ralph, who wore out a brand new car visiting her.

Valerie and Ralph were passionate world travelers, having visited over 50 countries. A highlight of their life together was the years they lived in France and England with their three young children. During this time they often loaded the family into their blue Volvo station wagon to set off on a new adventure to East Germany, French or Swiss Alps, or perhaps Yugoslavia. There would be no itinerary or reservations, but simply the desire to explore and experience something new.

Valerie was a lifelong swimmer and especially loved doing laps in the Long Island Sound and Great Peconic Bay. She also served as first mate to Ralph on a series of motor boats that increased in size as the years went by. Passionate about the arts, Valerie enjoyed going to concerts, ballets and shows in all different venues, from village gazebos to Broadway and Lincoln Center. Inspired by her time in Europe, Valerie was a gourmet chef and a lifelong student of the French language. She had a deep love for animals, often doing pet therapy for those in need.

She is survived by her husband, Ralph; her brother, John Wissler (Jean) of Londonderry, N.H.; her three children, Susan Bartolacci Dahiya (Sandeep), Peter Bartolacci (Suzanne) and Gary Bartolacci (Heidi); and her eight grandchildren, Asha, Pria and Julian Dahiya; Anna and Brendan Bartolacci; and Abigail, Eliza and Matthew Bartolacci.

A funeral mass for Valerie was held at the Church of the Transfiguration in Tarrytown, N.Y., and she was laid to rest at the Sacred Heart Cemetery in Cutchogue, N.Y.

In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made in Valerie’s name to the Courtney Anne Diacont Memorial Foundation (courtneyscause.org) or to Maria Fareri’s Children’s Hospital (mariafarerichildrens.org/ways-to-give1).

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James R. Duffy

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James R. Duffy, born July 22, 1936 of Cutchogue, N.Y., passed away unexpectedly Dec. 27, 2019 at the age of 83. 

He is survived by his best friend and loving wife of 60 years, Mary Ellen (nee Powers); his son Terence and his wife, Lil, his son James and his wife, Mary Ellen, his son Sean and his wife, Jessie, his son Michael and his wife, Diane, and his daughter, Mary Ellen, and her partner, Renee. He also leaves behind his 15 amazing grandchildren Nolan, Liam, Laura Lynn, Alannah, Ashley, Jim, Erin, Coleen, Kieran, Meghan, Aidan, Luke, Grace, Ian and Emmet; sister Ronnie and her husband, Paul Wolfrom. In addition, he leaves behind his beloved golden retriever, Whitey Ford. He was predeceased by his parents Terry and Rozzie, his sister Peggy his sister Kathy and her husband, Paul Joyce. 

He was a prominent trial attorney and senior trial partner of Duffy & Duffy, PLLC and worked tirelessly representing plaintiffs in medical malpractice cases. 

He had an incredible mind and a variety of interests and, amongst other things, regularly attended the opera and plays with his wife. As a lifelong Yankee fan, he especially enjoyed bringing his grandchildren to baseball games and sharing his love of baseball with them. He was an avid reader and an author of multiple books. He had a great sense of humor and loved putting a smile on the faces of his friends and family. Perhaps his favorite thing to do was to gather with family and friends for meals and the exchanging of stories, laughs and cherished memories. 

Wake services will be held at Towers Funeral Home in Oceanside, N.Y., Thursday, Jan. 2, and Friday, Jan. 3, between the hours of 2 and 4 and 7 and 9 p.m. A Mass to celebrate his life will be held Saturday Jan. 4, at 11:30 a.m. at Our Lady of Good Counsel Church in Mattituck, N.Y.

In Memory of James, donations may be made to Doctors Without Borders, doctorswithoutborders.org/support-us/faq-donating.

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In Memoriam: Remembering those we lost in 2019

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There are a couple of old sayings that sum up our feelings when important people in our lives pass away.

The ranks are thinning, you will hear, as well as that the cemeteries are filled with irreplaceable people. Both statements are true and untrue since every day people pick up a fallen standard. Even though we’re diminished by the deaths of those who have dedicated their unique lives to doing good, there are always others who are ready to replace them, even when we’re sometimes left with an emotional void that will never allow us to feel whole again.

A family mourns loved ones who are gone, and a community also can mourn the loss of people who thinned the ranks through their passing.

The following is a list of obituaries published by The Suffolk Times for Southold area residents and public figures who died in 2019.

Click on the name of the deceased to read more about their life:

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Joan Ahlsen

Carol Gardner Albertson

Richard Edward Allen

Nicholas G. Andriotis

Betty R. Angstadt

Mercedes Antongeorgi

Barbara Anne Armstrong-Gleason

Anne L. Arnold

Harley Byron Arnold

Dorothy K. Austin

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Sheila Sweyer Bachman

Sandra Bage

Ann Louise (Jones) Bannon

Valerie A. Bartolacci

Gary Bartoloni

Mary Ann Baumgratz

Gordon E. Baylis

Nora Beate Sigerist Beeson

Eunice P. Benfield

Barbara Ann Benson

William Henry Beresford

Edith M. Berry

Robert Thomas Best

Kelley Marie Blanchard

Bruce Bloom

Gary A. Bodenstein

Charles Frazier Booth

Walter F. ‘Wally’ Boron

Frances J. Borrelli

Ruth Joy Borst

Thomas P. Brady

Deyan Ranko Brashich

Donald F. Brown

Terence M. Browne

James Bryan

Walter John Buchanan

Richard S. Burden

Madeline Ruth Burgess-Barnett

Robert Burns

Norman Austin Burt

Richard Francis Butler

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Maria Carpenter

Bruce Christopher Carr

Renee Ann Carragher-Phelps

Patricia Brown Chamberlain

Elizabeth Charles

Joseph A. Cherepowich

Dolores A. ‘Tootsie’ Chituk

Theresa R. Chomicki

Angel B. Chorno

Peter M. Clark

William Francis Claudio

John Edward Clauss

Carol Jane (Geddes, Gurin) Coakley

Robert Cocorikis

William D. ‘Chilly’ Conklin

Phyllis Conley

Douglas E. Constant

Thomas H. Constantine

Jacqueline M. Conway

Joan Castel Conway

Albert George Cook

Robert Waide Cooper

Edward Francis Corrigan

Bernard Cosimano

Margaret Coutts

Theresa Cramer

Shirley Crocker

Charles Joseph Cromack

Patricia Nichols Curcuru

Mary Ellen Czelatka

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Leonard D. Dank

Georgianna V. Danowski

Felix A. Deerkoski

Barbara Bolton Dello Joio

Andrew and Dawn Demchuk

Antoinette ‘Toni’ DeMeo

Edward L. ‘Ted’ deReeder III

Eleanor Lillian de Reeder

David T. Devlin

Ronald G. Dietrich

David Howard Dingle

Audrey M. Dinizio

Frances C. DiVello

Max George Dobler

Kathleen M. Donlin

Thomas F. Donovan

Marjorie Grathwohl Driver

James R. Duffy

Georgia Dumas

Lois L. Dunne

Rita A. Duva

Stephen Dzugas-Smith

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Rosemarie Jessen Earl

Brian B. Edwards

Louise Elizabeth Hann Egert

Geoffrey Eggimann

Richard S. Engert

Maren Marie Erickson

Herbert Samuel Ernest

Maureen Ellen Van Etten

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Barbara (Betty) R. Koehler Fairburn

Barbara H. Fanning

David Glenn Feavel

Ann Thornhill Felli

Philip H. Fenderson

Shirley Ann Fenderson

Ady Fenton

Bruce E. Ferguson

Alice S. Fife

Lisa Raye Finnegan

Jane (Worthington) Flatley

Joy Flurry

Rush McGrew Forquer Jr.

Patricia Lillian McFarland Foster

Deane Knox Fox Jr.

Rosa D. Fucile

Eva Fugosich

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Mary G. Gagen

Kevin E. Gallagher

Lynn A. Gallagher

Doris Mary (Gable) Gannon

Dimitrios Georgianis

Arthur S. Gibbons

Samuel Bellows Gilpin III

Alexander Vincent Giorgi

Barbara Anne Armstrong-Gleason

Myron William Goldstein

Jesse Robinson ‘Bobby’ Goodale III

George H. Gray

Victor Grissino

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Christine and Joseph Haeg

Robert J. Hardman

Barbara A. Harkins

Barbara A. Harrington

Ned Harroun

Helen A. Heaney

Bernard Arthur Heinisch

Donald E. Henn

Joseph Charles Henry

Pearl Herbert

Brian T. Higgins

Cathryn Tolan Higgins

Charles J. Hoffmann

Marjorie K. Hoffman

Sylvia Holtzberg

Susan Elizabeth Homan

Gary R. Hotchkiss

Robert B. Howard III

Lester E. Hubbard Jr.

Raymond R. Huntington

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Harry Jaquillard

Leon J. Jasinski Sr.

Joseph A. Johnson III

Ernest ‘Toppy’ Jones

Edward P. Jurzenia

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Karen ‘Candy’ (Spencer) Kamm

Jane M. Kasper

Ellinor Kasuga

Judith Ann Kayton

Calliope Kentrotas

Edward H. King

Edward T. Kinsel

Henry M. Kislow Sr.

Walter Kluge

Steven Kosciusko

Patricia E. Kren

Anders E. Kritsberg

Edith Kudlinski

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Joan Ann Lademann

Jon T. Lake

Tonya Larkins

Anne Carolyn Lee

Bruce J. Lehr

Shaun M. Leo

Merle P. Levine

Charles Arthur Ley

Mabel Antoinette Ley

Frank F. Licari

David M. Long

Edward H. Lopez

Caroline Ostrander Loschen

Hanna M. Lovett

Ethel Lubina 

Marjorie Reese Ludlow

Marie E. Lukert

Richard Mark Lupoletti

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Frank W. Mackie

Lois M. Manfredi

Russell Edward Mann

Margaret ‘Midge’ Marcell

Andreas Emmanuel Markakis

Anne Loretta Marusevich

Mary Wheeler Doroski McCafferty

Maureen Anne McCarthy

Grace Elizabeth McDonough

Edward J. McGurn

John P. McLinskey

Shirley G. McMann

Marilyn E. McNulty

Cornelius McShane

Aubrey Mealy Jr.

August Francis Menchini

Eileen Anne Methven

Joseph M. Metzner

Father George Michell

Richard A. Miller

Kevin F. Monsell

Corinne L. Moore

Mary Patricia Mosca

Mirko A. Mrva

Mary Anthea (Ann) Mueller

Eve McDavid Mullins

Janet Myrin

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Catherine Ann Napier

Cynthia L. Nelson

Dolores Ann Neudeck

John Norton

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Catherine V. O’Neill

Dr. Victor S. Orioli

P

Addie ‘Nema’ Pace

Roy Cornell Pace

Anthony Palumbo

Ralph Louis Panella

Ioannis G. Papadakis

Gayle Elizabeth Patchell

LeRoy A. Paul

Cathy Lynne Pearce

Dorothy Penny

Richard F. Pierson

James J. Pirillo

Margaret Claire Pisani

William Edward PisaRelli

Mildred E. ‘Millie’ Pizzo

Joseph A. ‘Joe’ Pottgen

Bernard A. Power

Gerard Puccio

Gary J. Pumillo

Franco G. Purita

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Ethel May Quillin

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Barbara M. Raacke

Mary Louise Rabe

Doris Raynor-Hennessey

Donald Richard Reeves

Robert C. Reeves Jr.

Daniel G. Reiter

Lawrence H. ‘Hunt’ Reybine Jr.

George Douglas Richards

Robert Herbert Ringewald

Robert Mayer Ringold

John Christopher Ritter

John Benedict ‘Ben’ Roache III

Joan Albertson Rogers

Rose E. Rogers

Robert J. Rosnack

Jeanne Rutkowski

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Stella Sakowicz

H. William ‘Bill’ Sawicki

Marilyn Grace Hoffmann Scheiner

Harry E. Schlachter

Dennis P. Schlessinger

William B. Schneider

Robert C. Schoenhaar

John Malcolm Schriefer

William W Schriever

Theodore H. Schroeder

Harold P. Schwerdt

Mary Lee Matheson Shanahan

John Sidor Jr.

Bruce Franklyn Sieverman

George Russell Simpson

Arnold H. Sims

Jenny T. Skirel

Louise Washington Smiley

Irene Smith

Joseph T. Smith

Thornton Edward Smith

Vera C. Smith

William A. Smith

Muriel S. Snider

Joseph Soito

Alfred J. Spiro

Veronica M. ‘Roni’ Stankewicz

Glen A. Staples

Jane Constance Buckley Steinbugler

Charles André Stringfellow

Christine A. Stulsky

Rosina Suglia

Theresa Sullivan

Jeanette E. Swotkewicz

Alexander J. Sydlowski Sr.

Joseph Szot Sr.

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Roy Herbert Taplin

Steve Tenedios

Mary E. ‘Miz’ Thomson

Kelli Elizabeth Thompson

Frank S. Thorp Jr.

Arthur J. Tillman

Peter M. Todebush

Carmela Barbara ‘Connie’ Toepfert

Lewis Stanley Tomaszewski

Mary E. Travers

Joan E. Tuthill

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George Patrick Vallely

Heidi Ann Burczyk Vandall

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Eleanor Ruth Walker

Margery Marie Walker

Peter Michael Walker

Pamela Watson

Gerald W. Weir Jr.

Gerald S. Wells

Kevin Wells

Robert M. Westover

Jerri Marie White

James Peter Wilcenski

Percy Bertel Wilson

Helen Alice Wolanski

Carolyn Wright

Antone J. Wysocki Jr.

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Dorothy C. Yanke

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Constance Rose Zahra

Frank J. Zambriski

Anne H. Zaneski

Barbara Ann Zaneski

Mary E. Zeballos

Maria Zegray

Peter B. Zuhoski Jr.

Editor’s Note: This list was compiled from obituaries submitted to The Suffolk Times by families of the deceased and area funeral homes. Obituaries not submitted to us for publication and news stories were not included.

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John F. Troyan Jr.

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On Jan. 3, 2020, John F. Troyan Jr. of Mattituck was called home to be with our Lord. He was 82 years old.

John was born on July 24, 1937, in Riverhead, N.Y., to Helen Wanda (Kolymago) and John F. Troyan Sr. of Aquebogue, N.Y.

He graduated from Riverhead High School in 1954.

John joined the United States Air Force. He received training in electronics, which led his 20-year career around the world and eventually being assigned to Scott AFB in Illinois. That led him to being on the team that built the C-5 Galaxy (largest cargo aircraft in the military). John retired with the rank of chief master sergeant. Settling down in Mattituck, John was a constant fixture on Love Lane in Mattituck, opening his business, Troyan Audio and Video repair.

He was a proud member of the Elks, Polish Hall, the American Legion, the VFW and Mattituck Fire Department.

He was predeceased by his loving wife, Elizabeth (Betty) Troyan, and siblings Cecilia Naugles and Thomas Troyan. He is survived by his two daughters, Teresa Porter (Troyan) of Mattituck and Mary Troyan of Riverhead; two granddaughters, Rebecca Porter of Hanover, Md., and Sara Porter (Davis Hay, fiancé) of Jacksonville, Fla.; and siblings Lucille Zuhoski, Theresa Kobylenski and Peter Troyan.

The family will receive friends Thursday, Jan. 9, from 3 to 7 p.m. at DeFriest-Grattan Funeral Home in Mattituck. The Liturgy of Christian Burial will be celebrated Friday, Jan. 10, at 10 a.m. at Our Lady of Ostrabrama R.C. Church in Cutchogue, officiated by Father Stan Wadowski. Interment with U.S. Air Force Honors will follow at Calverton National Cemetery, where he will be laid to rest beside his loving wife, Elizabeth (Betty).

In lieu of flowers the family asks that donations be made to The Veterans Home, Muscular Dystrophy Association or IGHL (Independent Group Home Living). Envelopes will be available at the funeral home.

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Alexander C. Wipf

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Alexander C. Wipf, born May 9, 1938, in Brooklyn, N.Y., died Dec. 22, 2019, at San Simeon By The Sound Nursing and Rehab Facility, after a courageous battle with congestive heart failure, at the age of 81.

He is survived by his best friend and loving wife of 35 years, Marion (née Vaccaro); his two daughters Lindsey (aka Yasmeen) and Jacqueline. He also leaves behind his amazing grandchildren Noor (Azar) and Fouad Alexander Imad (Azar), both of whom he was so proud, and his adorable granddaughter Winter Mars, whom, unfortunately, he never met; his sisters, Joan (Lawrence), Janet (Fossum Roccisano), brother-in-law Tony (Roccisano), their son, Dr. Anthony (Roccisano), his adorable son APR III; his brother-in-law Nicholas (Vaccaro) and sister-in-law Jane (Vaccaro), their sons Stephen and his wife, Katherine, their two young sons Jameson and Jesse, and Christopher and his wife, Diana and their baby son Conor Christopher; his nephews David (Wipf) and his wife Scarlett (Miles) their family Sarafina, Jasmine and Elijah, Scott (Wipf) and Jud (Wipf) and his four children, his brother Harold (Fossum) along with many nieces and nephews whom he all loved dearly. He was predeceased by his parents, Corn and Mary Wipf; his brother, John (Wipf); his stepsisters, Rose and Barbara (Fossum); and his sister-in-law Janet (Fossum-Miesner).

Alex was an actor and singer. After graduating from Brooklyn college Alex attended The Neighborhood Playhouse in New York City and worked at the Plaza 9 Theatre in The Plaza Hotel and began his successful career earning a living as an actor doing hundreds of commercials, but later in his career focused on his main love ­— live theatre — both regional and Broadway. He was a member of SAG, AFTRA and Equity, forming committees and staying active in the unions until the very end. He did film work and appeared on many television series. If you watch Law & Order and Special Victims Unit reruns, you are sure to see him. He was proud to be represented by About Artists and CESD, both supportive and excellent talent agencies.

Like the best of actors, nothing came between Alex and his role in life. He played his parts with the same conviction as he would any role on stage; nothing got in the way of what he felt needed to be expressed, which made him authentic, honest and, at times, unfiltered. As his friend wrote: “He was a character” and “a voracious reader of non-fiction!”

He loved nature and spent many hours in his garden planting and enjoying the flowers he grew and enjoyed all the little critters the garden attracted. He fed the birds and created a welcoming drinking fountain and bath for them to experience. Hummingbirds would flutter around his head when he sat quietly in the garden!

He had a zest for life unmatched by anyone, with many, when expressing their sympathies, made a point of saying that “he knew how to enjoy himself” and “how to live life to the fullest!” He could walk into a quiet party and turn it around on a dime, especially if there was a piano player who knew “show tunes!” His favorite thing to do!

Alex’s goal was to live life to the fullest! “He knew how to live!” has been heard over and over since his death. For him, every day was an opportunity to seize. Any obstacles in his way failed to steer him from what he valued. He proved his philosophy frequently by overcoming many challenges in his life. This determination, his will to live an abundant life, made him stubborn, but it equally rendered him “vibrant,” “aesthete” and “alive.” As he put it best: “Straight ahead!”

A memorial is planned for early summer!

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Peter Puric

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Peter Puric of New Suffolk died Jan. 3, 2020, at Peconic Bay Medical Center in Riverhead. He was 83.

Mr. Puric was born June 29, 1936, in Croatia to Kate and Peter Puric.

He made a career as a machinist with Con Edison in New York City.

Mr. Puric’s family said he was a member of the Southold Adriatic Social Club and Our Lady of Ostrabrama R.C. Church and enjoyed fishing, boating and working as a craftsman.

He is survived by his wife, Helen (Dapic) of New Suffolk; children, Robert (Kristen), of Rocky Point and Catherine (Steven) Cavalier or Cutchogue; his sister, Anica Variola of Croatia; and his grandchildren, Scott and Katelyn.

Visitors will be received Friday, Jan. 10, from 2 to 4 and 7 to 9 p.m. at Coster-Heppner Funeral Home in Cutchogue. A service will take place at 11 a.m. Saturday, Jan. 11, at Our Lady of Ostrabrama R.C. Church in Cutchogue. Interment will follow at Sacred Heart Cemetery.

Memorial donations may be made to American Lung Association.

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Dr. Charles H. Campbell

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Charles H. Campbell, a long-term resident of East Marion and Orient, N.Y., died Monday, Dec. 30, 2019, at Peconic Landing in Greenport, N.Y. He was 95 years old.

Charles was born Dec. 8, 1924, to Isabel (Bruton) and Carl Campbell in Sanford, N.C.

He left college to join the US. Navy, during World War II. He served as a submariner on the USS Cobia, from May 1943 to May 1946.

When World War II and his commitment with the Navy was over, he returned to Campbell College in North Carolina where he met his wife, Ruth (Wiggins) Campbell.

Charles and Ruth were married Nov. 27, 1947, in North Carolina. He went on to study at the University of North Carolina, where he received his doctorate in microbiology.

After graduation, he taught in a medical school. He spent most of his career working at Plum Island Animal Disease Center where he worked as a research scientist with a long list of publications and later as acting director.

In addition to his great accomplishments as a scientist, he was a passionate sailor, woodworker and boat builder who also loved ballet and Shakespeare and enjoyed sharing his love of these with others.

He built many displays for Oysterponds Historical Society and enjoyed supporting their projects. He served on the board of directors for Floyd Memorial Library in Greenport for many years. He volunteered at Orient Methodist Church and helped out the Boy Scouts.

He is survived by his wife, Ruth Wiggins Campbell; his children, Carl Campbell (Debbie Crouch-Campbell) Elaine Campbell, Elizabeth Campbell (Jack McCleland) and David Campbell (Sherri Parkhurst); his grandchildren, Jeremy Campbell, Joy Said, Dani Dagonese, Emily Himmelsbach, Andrew Campbell; and seven great-grandchildren.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to North Fork Animal Welfare League, 269 Peconic Lane, Peconic, NY 11958 or call 631-765-1811.

There will be a graveside Veterans Ceremony at East Marion Cemetery at 1 p.m. Sunday, Jan. 12, 2020, followed by a celebration of his life held at Peconic Landing Library, 1500 Brecknock Road, Greenport, NY 11944 Sunday, Jan. 12, 2020, from 2 to 4 p.m.

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Margaret Elizabeth Kingsley

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Margaret Elizabeth Kingsley, 97, passed away Saturday, Dec. 21, 2019.

She was born to the late Floyd F. and Belle D. King in Orient, N.Y., on Feb. 7, 1922.

Margaret spent most of her happy childhood and young adult life in Orient, a town where her family was one of the first to settle in 1640, when the town was known as Oyster Ponds.

After graduating from the State University of New York in New Paltz in 1944, Margaret went on to attend the University of Miami in Miami, Fla., as well as Barry University in Miami Shores.

She taught in the elementary public school systems in New York and Florida for 16 years. While being an educator, a librarian and an instructor for the gifted children program, she was selected as one of the founding leading instructors to organize the program in Miami, Dade County.

For 37 years Margaret was a loving and devoted wife to Edmond Kingsley, who passed away in July 2008. They had moved to Indialantic, Fla., in 1971, where they owned and operated Ocean Reef Club, a resort located on A1A, for 29 years.

Inspired by the town and love for Indialantic, Margaret was the author of the booklet “Indialantic-by-the-Sea,” published in 1981. The booklet went on to be sold in local book stores and gift shops. During her active business life and retirement years, she loved traveling the world with her husband, family and close friends.

Margaret was preceded in death by her parents; her brother, Floyd F. King Jr.; her husband, Edmond Kingsley; and a niece, Susan A. King. Margaret leaves behind a nephew, William A. King of Webster, Mass.; stepson, Stephen Kingsley (Valerie) of Germantown, N.Y.; stepdaughter, Claudia Stroud (Steven) of Plymouth, Mass.; and step-granddaughter, Olana Kingsley of New York City; as well as many other members of the extended family.

Margaret will be missed by a host of family and friends who will always remember her. She was a remarkable woman, wife, partner, stepmother and friend with a positive outlook, independent spirit and love of life.
Services will be held at Beach Funeral Home, Indian Harbour Beach, Fla., on Jan. 12 at 3 p.m.

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Michael F. Murphy

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Michael F. Murphy of Southold, formerly of Mattituck, died Jan. 6. He was 59.

Visitors will be received friends Friday, Jan. 10, from 3 to 7 p.m. at DeFriest-Grattan Funeral Home in Mattituck. A funeral service will take place Saturday, Jan. 11, at 10 a.m. at the funeral home.

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Carol Glenn

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Carol Glenn of Mattituck died of heart failure Sunday, Jan. 5, at Brookhaven Hospital. She was 65.

Ms. Glenn was born in 1954 in Dayton, Ohio, to Ellen (Suppes) and Norman Glenn, a war hero.

Carol was an “Air Force brat” and spent her childhood everywhere from Alabama to New Mexico and finally Ohio, where she spent eight years before moving to Long Island as a 15-year-old.

She was a graduate of Harborfields High School, where she was a swimmer, a diver and a gymnast.

Many of you millennials will remember her as your favorite school bus driver. Others will remember her for her 10 years working at San Simeon by the Sound, first as an aide and then as a nurse for your parents and grandparents.

She spent the last 28 years with the love of her life, George Maltese. They had a magical marriage Sept. 8, 2017, in the ICU at Peconic Bay Medical Center, just days after she coded. Before that, they had plans to marry in 2018.

She was a sweetie. Everyone who knew her loved her. She was just a nice person … that Midwest nice.

Ms. Glenn was predeceased by her parents. She is survived by her husband, George, and siblings Amy Glenn of Corrales, N.M., and John Glenn of Amarillo, Texas.

Visitors will be received Saturday, Jan. 11, from 2 to 4 and 7 to 9 p.m. at DeFriest-Grattan Funeral Home in Mattituck. Funeral services will be held during the afternoon visitation at 3 p.m., officiated by Caren Heacock.

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Marguerita ‘Marge’ C. Howkins

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Marguerita “Marge” C. Howkins of Greenport died Jan. 4. She was 94.

Visitors will be received Saturday, Jan. 11, from 10 to 11 a.m. at Horton-Mathie Funeral Home. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 11:30 a.m. at St. Agnes R.C. Church in Greenport followed by interment at St. Agnes Cemetery.

Memorial donations may be made to St. Agnes R.C. Church 523 Front St. Greenport, NY 11944.

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George R. Sullivan

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George R. Sullivan of Southold died at home Jan. 10. He was 75.

Visitors will be received Tuesday, Jan. 14, from 3 to 7 p.m. at DeFriest-Grattan Funeral Home in Southold.

The Liturgy of Christian Burial will be celebrated Wednesday, Jan. 15, at 11 a.m. at Saint Patrick’s R.C. Church in Southold. Interment with U.S. Marine Corps Honors will take place at Arlington National Cemetery.

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Melvin R. Dominguez Torres

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Melvin R. Dominguez Torres of Cutchogue died Jan. 6. He was 21.

Visitors will be received Monday, Jan. 13, from 7 to 9 p.m. at DeFriest-Grattan Funeral Home in Mattituck, where prayer services will be held.

Interment will be in his native El Salvador.

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John George Madsen

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John George Madsen of Southold died Sunday, Jan. 12, 2020. He was 81 years old.

John was born April 16, 1938, in Greenport, N.Y., to Ethel M. (Richards) and Ragnvald J. Madsen, where he was raised and later graduated from Greenport High School.

On Oct. 12, 1969, he married the love of his life, Gloria R. Kamps, in Southold and together they had one child.

He worked as a bus driver for Sunrise Bus Company, retiring in 1988.

He was an avid walker, a race car driver at Riverhead Raceway, a bowling league member and a 45-year member of the Masonic Lodge.

Predeceased by his wife, Gloria, he is survived by his daughter, Regina Cartselos (George) of Southold; grandsons Nikolas and Danny Cartselos; and sibling Jeanine Monsell.

The family will receive friends Friday, Jan. 17, from 4 to 7 p.m. at DeFriest-Grattan Funeral Home in Southold.

In lieu of flowers, donations to North Fork Animal Welfare League (NFAWL) would be appreciated. Envelopes will be available at the funeral home.

This is a paid notice.

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Jeanne R. Bredemeyer

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1923-2020

Jeanne R. Bredemeyer of Orient passed to the Eternal Father Jan. 4, 2020, at age 96.

Born in Brooklyn to Helen and Ernest Renard, Jeanne was raised in Queens and Goose Bay, Southold.

After attending Hofstra University and graduating from Katharine Gibbs, and prior to marrying her NYC firefighter husband, John Bredemeyer, also of Goose Bay, where they met, she worked as an executive secretary for several distinguished directors and officers of Douglas Leigh Advertising and McGraw-Hill Publishing. Later she did freelance editing and was director of Oysterponds Historical Society in Orient, an East End Hospice volunteer and a deaconess of Orient Congregational Church.

Jeanne and John loved travel and the cruising life, making memorable trips and voyages out west and to Canada, Europe and the South Pacific.

She was a lead instructor for NYS Cooperative Extension Service, with cooking, homemaking and decoration classes her forte. Her cookbook collection is phenomenal. She so loved so many here in old Orient for whom she shared her good eats.

Jeanne was preceded in death by her loving husband, John, and is survived by her two sons, John Bredemeyer (Beverly) and grandchildren Michael and Emily (Vance), and Eric Bredemeyer (Hanne) and grandchildren Kristian and William.

A memorial with “glad hymns of praise from land and sea” is planned for summer.

In memory of Jeanne, donations may be made to East End Hospice or Orient Fire Department.

Arrangements were entrusted to Coster-Heppner Funeral Home in Cutchogue.

This is a paid notice.

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George Edward Freeman

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George Edward Freeman of Riverhead died Jan. 8. He was 63.

Visitors were received Jan. 13 at Clinton Memorial A.M.E. Zion Church in Greenport, followed by Homegoing services, officiated by the Rev. Natalie Wimberly. Interment took place at Southold Presbyterian Cemetery.

DeFriest-Grattan Funeral Home in Southold assisted the family.

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George Robert Sullivan

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Born in Brooklyn, N.Y., on Jan. 21, 1944, George was the second oldest of three children of George and Agnes (Connolly) Sullivan.

George grew up in Lynbrook and attended parochial schools, graduating from St. Agnes High School in 1962 and cum laude with a B.B.A. degree in accounting from Iona College. While at Iona, he participated in crew and was elected to the National Honor Society as well as Who’s Who in American Colleges and Universities. During the summers of 1963 and 1965 he successfully completed The Platoon Leaders Class program and received his commission in the United States Marine Corps in June 1966 upon graduating from Iona.

Following graduation from The Basic School at Quantico, Va., he was assigned to ground forces in the former Republic of Vietnam and assumed command of a rifle platoon stationed with Lima Company, 3rd Battalion, 4th Marine Regiment in Quang Tri Province. On March 17, 1967, during Operation Prairie II while on a mission to rescue the crew of a downed helicopter, he sustained wounds during an engagement with North Vietnamese forces and as a result of those injuries his left leg was amputated above the knee. He retired in October 1967 and was awarded the Navy Cross — the country’s second-highest military decoration.

George continued his education, receiving a M.B.A. in taxation from New York University Graduate Business School and also attended Fordham University Law School where he served as class president.

He then pursued a career in public accounting and, after working with the international firm Ernst & Ernst, established his own practice in 1971.

George married Margaret (Caragher) Sullivan April 18, 1970, and they settled their family in Southold in 1973.

George was active in both veteran and community endeavors and believed that public service was a calling that we all should pursue. He was an adjunct professor of accounting on the faculty of Suffolk County Community College and served as an elected official of the Town of Southold for over two decades, holding the office of receiver of taxes. He was a principal in the construction of the Suffolk County Vietnam Veterans Memorial that was dedicated on Veterans Day, Nov. 11, 1991. He is a life member of the DAV and the Military Order of the Purple Heart as well as the Marine Corps League and American Legion. He also served on the local board of the Marine Corps Scholarship Foundation as well as serving as chairman of an annual golf tournament which has raised more than $250,000 to provide educational benefits to children of Marines or corpsmen killed or wounded in combat.

George was most proud of having coached basketball for 12 years both at the high school level as well as for St. Patrick’s CYO teams. He often saw and communicated with former players over the years. George was a member of St. Patrick’s R.C. Church in Southold and a member of North Fork Country Club. George was an avid golfer and he loved the competition and camaraderie of playing a round of golf with his friends.

George is recognized as one of two Marines with a quote on a glass panel at the American Veterans Disabled for Life Memorial located in Washington, D.C., which honors more than four million veterans who returned home permanently disabled. Dedicated in October 2014, the memorial features quotes from disabled veterans detailing their experiences. George’s quote reads: “Yes, I wished things would have worked out a little better for me, but I did come home alive and had a fairly successful life.”

George is predeceased by his wife of 47 years, Margaret, and is survived by his son, Bob Sullivan of Charleston, S.C.; his daughter, Megan Collins and her husband, John Collins, of Southold and their three children Kevin, Mallaigh and Ryan; as well as his brother, Jack Sullivan (Patricia Ann) of Delray Beach, Fla. and his sister, Peggy Epstein of Steamboat Springs, Colo.

George loved his family. His three grandchildren were the center of his universe.

The family will receive visitors Tuesday, Jan. 14, from 3 to 7 p.m. at DeFriest-Grattan Funeral Home in Southold. The Liturgy of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Wednesday, Jan. 15, at 11 a.m. at St. Patrick’s R.C. Church. Interment will take place at a future date at Arlington National Cemetery in Washington, D.C.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations can be made to Marine Corps Scholarship Foundation, 909 N. Washington St., Suite 400, Alexandria, VA 22314.

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Daria Blanche Okrasinski

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May 29, 1982 – Dec. 23, 2019


Daria Blanche Okrasinski of Westhampton Beach passed away Dec. 23, 2019, after a tragic accidental fall in her home. She was 37.

Daria was born on May 29, 1982, in Huntington, N.Y., but she spent most of her childhood in Southold, N.Y., where she graduated from high school in 2000.

After school, she stuck around town for a while and could often be found belting out a flawless rendition of Etta James’ “At Last” at the Whiskey Wind’s karaoke bar in Greenport.

A few of her favorite things were butterflies, her cats, Mister and Princessia (who miss her terribly), and the music of the Bee Gees. Sadly, she never fulfilled her lifelong dream of meeting her celebrity crush, Barry Gibb, who she affectionately referred to as “Lion’s Mane”

At work, Daria was focused on doing the absolute best job she could, gaining the admiration of her co-workers and customers alike. In 2017, she gave birth to her only daughter, who she named after herself. Dariana was her world — her little love “muffin,” self-proclaimed greatest accomplishment and now her legacy.

Dar was her daddy’s princess, but also strong as an ox, pushing through life’s constant battles with kindness and grace. Her beautiful soul always wanted to help others, even if it meant giving the very little she had to someone else in need. Her loved ones never doubted how much she cared for them because she made it more than clear how much she loved them and how important they were to her.

Daria’s incredible light shone into all of our lives. She will be remembered most for her sense of humor, sweet demeanor, angelic singing voice and enchanting “smize.” True to her Gemini sign, she charmed all that were fortunate to meet her. Always the one to make us laugh till we cried, and cried with us until we were laughing again. She was and will always be the only bee in our bonnet.

Daria was predeceased by her mother, Betty Torkelsen, and her favorite cat, Minaya. She is survived by her daughter, Dariana Dietz; fiancé, Kord Dietz; father, Stanley Okrasinski; sister, Keri Torkelsen; grandparents Lars and Astri Torkelsen; and her loving nieces, aunts, uncles and cousins.

A Celebration of Life memorial service was held at Mattituck Presbyterian Church Jan. 12, 2020. Donations can be made to her daughter Dariana’s college fund. Email korddietz@yahoo.com to make a contribution.

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Joseph B. Bokina Jr.

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Joseph B. Bokina Jr. died Jan. 11. He was 65.

He was born April 29, 1954, to Margaret (Harrison) and Joseph Bokina in Greenport.

Mr. Bokina graduated from Southold High School and was employed by North Fork Sanitation.

He was a 40-year member of Cutchogue Fire Department.

His family said he enjoyed fishing, surf casting, bowling and that he loved his lawn and vegetable garden.

Mr. Bokina was predeceased by his father in 2009 and sister Carol Manwaring in 2012. He is survived by his mother, who resides in Cutchogue, and sister Lori Helms.

Visitors will be received Wednesday, Jan. 15, from 2 to 4 and 6 to 8 p.m. at Coster-Heppner Funeral Home in Cutchogue where Firematic services will take place at 7 p.m. The funeral home assisted the family with a private cremation.

Memorial donations may be made to Cutchogue Fire Department.

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