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Peter M. Todebush

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Peter M. Todebush of Cutchogue died Thursday, March 28, 2019, at the age of 83.

Born June 4, 1935, in Madras, India, Peter was a graduate of the Trinity-Pawling School; Colgate University, where he was an All American lacrosse player; and Officer Candidate School in Newport, R.I.

He served as a lieutenant in the U.S. Navy from 1957 to 1962.

A career in finance in New York and Chicago followed naval service, culminating as founding partner at Jackson Associates, a member firm at the Chicago Board of Trade. He served as second vice-chairman of the Chicago Board of Trade in 1996 and enjoyed a lifelong interest in economics.

Peter and his beloved wife of 57 years, Mary (née Hawke), retired to Naples, Fla., in 1997, dividing their time between Florida and Cutchogue until moving permanently to Cutchogue in 2014. An avid golf and tennis player, he was a member of North Fork Country Club for over 30 years.

Peter was a devoted husband, father and grandfather — his greatest joy was his family. His wife, Mary, his “Poochie,” was the love of his life. Peter’s sense of humor, patience and intelligence will be greatly missed by everyone who knew him.

Peter was predeceased by his parents, Ralph and Minnie Todebush of Cutchogue. In addition to Mary, Peter is survived by his son, Roger, of Chicago; daughter, Kristen, and son-in-law, Michael Ryan; and granddaughters Lindsay and Charlotte Ryan of Manhasset.

Memorial donations in Peter’s name may be made to Cutchogue New Suffolk Free Library and the Cutchogue Fire Department.

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Georgianna V. Danowski

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Georgianna V. Danowski of Aquebogue died March 28. She was 89.

She was born Nov. 16, 1929, to Anna (Sarnowski) and George Berkowski in Southold.

Ms. Danowski attended Southold High School, married her husband, John, and became a homemaker.

She enjoyed knitting, shopping and loved working on Polak’s farm, her family said.

Ms. Danowski was predeceased by her husband in 2005; her son, John Jr.; and her daughter, Renee Danowski-Linnen. She is survived by her son Larry (Donna) of Riverhead; her grandchildren Tyler, Marisa, John, Jamie, Jessica, Brian and Christopher; and her great-grandchildren Kaden and Aiden.

Visitors will be received Sunday, March 31, from 2 to 6 p.m. at McLaughlin Heppner Funeral Home. A service will take place Monday, April 1, at 9:30 a.m. at St. Isidore R.C. Church in Riverhead followed by interment at the church’s cemetery.

Memorial donations may be made to the Shrine of our Lady of the Island, 258 Eastport-Manor Road, Eastport, NY 11949.

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Edward H. Lopez

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Edward H. Lopez of Dix Hills died Wednesday, April 3. He was 56.

Visitors will be received Friday, April 5, from 4 to 8 p.m. at Commack Abbey in Commack.

The Liturgy of Christian Burial will be celebrated Saturday, April 6, at 11:45 a.m. at Saint Matthew’s R.C. Church in Dix Hills. Interment will follow at Saint Patrick’s R.C. Cemetery in Southold.

Memorial donations may be made to the American Diabetes Association.

DeFriest-Grattan Funeral Home in Southold is assisting the family.

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Rita A. Duva

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Rita A. Duva of Riverhead died April 2 at home. She was 94. 

She was born Sep. 18, 1924, in Bronx, N.Y., to Florence and Victor Tula. 

Ms. Duva worked as a sales clerk at Fuhrman’s Department Store and loved cooking, family and her grandchildren, her family said. 

Ms. Duva was predeceased by her husband, Joseph, in 1974. She is survived by her son, Dr. Joseph Duva (Barbara) of Cutchogue and her grandchildren Joseph A. and Jessica. 

Visitors will be received Sunday, April 7, from 2 to 6 p.m. at Coster-Heppner Funeral Home in Cutchogue. Interment was private.

Memorial donations may be made to North Fork Breast Health Coalition. 

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Frances J. Borrelli

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Frances J. Borrelli of Greenport died April 8. She was 84.Visitors will be received Wednesday, April 10, from 2 to 4 and 7 to 9 p.m. at Horton-Mathie Funeral Home in Greenport.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at 10 a.m. Thursday, April 11, at St. Agnes R.C. Church in Greenport, followed by interment at the church cemetery.

Memorial donations may be made to the Alzheimer’s Association, P.O. Box 96011, Washington, DC 20090.

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Eleanor S. de Reeder

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On Saturday, April 27, family and friends will celebrate the life of Eleanor S. de Reeder with a memorial service at First Presbyterian Church of Southold at 11 a.m. A reception at the church will follow.For details, contact DeFriest-Grattan Funeral Home in Southold.

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William B. Schneider

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William B. Schneider of Greenport died March 28. He was 79.

He was born Jan. 15, 1940, to Catherine O’Connor and William Schneider in Glen Cove, N.Y.

Mr. Schneider married his wife, Elaine, on Sept. 12, 1964, in Sea Cliff, N.Y.

He served in the U.S. Army for two years, attaining the rank of Specialist E-4 and made a career at Verizon as a manager for 35 years. He also spent seven years as a fireman at the VA Medical Center in Northport and served as a fireman and fire marshal of Smithtown.

Mr. Schneider received the Kings Park Fire Department service award after 40 years and was named Fireman of the Year by the medical center. He was also affiliated with Greenport Fire Department and Glenwood Landing Volunteer Fire Department.

Mr. Schneider enjoyed sailing, golfing, skiing and working in his workshop, his family said.

He is survived by his wife, who resides in Greenport; his daughters Doreen Schaefer of Oakdale, N.Y. and Robin Sommese of Simpsonville, S.C.; and three grandchildren.

Visitors were received April 1 at Horton-Mathie Funeral Home in Greenport, followed by services at St. Agnes R.C. Church in Greenport and interment at Calverton National Cemetery.

Memorial donations may be made to Dr. Jedd Wolchok Research Fund at Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center, 300 East 66th St., 15th Floor, New York, NY 10065.

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George Russell Simpson

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When George Simpson moved to Southampton, N.Y. in 1996, the real estate market was behind the times. Most real estate agencies on the south and north forks were using written card catalogs to list each property for sale and rent. A few of the bigger agencies had limited computerized listing systems in black and white, where they couldn’t give buyers the information they needed without a paper cutter cutting off owner information. George saw the need to fix the problems and he developed a new real estate software listing system. Agents and brokers all over the North Fork and South Fork used his listing system and it transformed the way they operated their businesses. He supported his software and all of the real estate agencies with computer repair services. He also provided a service company that reported monthly real estate data transfers of houses and vacant land.

George was not an alien to innovation. George got his bachelors of science in mechanical engineering from Cornell University in 1961 and started his career as a space scientist for NASA at Lewis Research Center and was also a Project Manager on SERT-II, the first orbital test of ion engines. He left NASA to work for Union Carbide before he began his career as an inventor.

Beginning in 1968, George created the first commercial word processing service bureau and invented the first word processor with a screen. He designed the original word processing products for Wang, Digital Equipment Corp., Xerox and many others. He produced and promoted hundreds of publications, seminars and training programs all over the U.S. and Europe, including “The Word Processing Report,” “Word Processing and the American Office” and three yearly sections in Time Magazine on word processing office automation.

George holds many patents in the U.S. and in foreign countries in the fields of electrostatic displays, memory and switching technology. George was the inventor of “ink projecting typewriter ribbon,” a non-impact laser printing technology and the founder and CEO of Micro-Curl Display Technologies for flat panel monitor technology.

Last but not least, George spent years working for God uncovering hidden meanings in words of the English language. The language that he uncovered, “ET Corn Gods Language,” was based on logic and mathematics. George was contacted and told that he had been chosen to break the code and teach the world the hidden language.

George R. Simpson died peacefully at Hamptons Center for Rehabilitation on April 2, 2019, in Southampton, N.Y., at the age of 81.

George is survived by his wife, Jean Simpson; son George R. Simpson Jr. from first wife, Bige; son Alex Simpson from second wife, Julie; daughter Stephanie Simpson; daughter Charlotte Simpson; brother Robert Simpson; and his five grandkids: Melissa Simpson, Shae Simpson, Alison Fagan, Austin Simpson and Stevenson Fagan. He is preceded in death by his father, Oscar Strother Simpson; his mother, Cordelia Simpson; and his brothers Oscar Strother Simpson Jr. and John Simpson.

George was born Sept. 25, 1937, in Houston, Texas, to Oscar Strother Simpson and Cordelia Simpson. He graduated from Cornell University in 1961 with a degree in mechanical engineering. He married Jean Simpson, on Sept. 9, 1973, in Southampton.

His family and friends know George to be loving, funny, supportive, and stubborn and everyone who knows him will miss him dearly. He has touched the lives of everyone who knew him. The family will have a small private gathering with family and friends.

McLaughlin Heppner Funeral Home in Riverhead assisted the family.

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Andreas Emmanuel Markakis

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Andreas Emmanuel Markakis, a 36-year resident of Southold, died Thursday, March 28, 2019. He was 91.Andreas was born Jan. 11, 1928, in Neapolis, Crete, Greece, to Maria (Lygnos) and Emmanuel Markakis.

He married the love of his life, Victoria (nee Sanchez) Markakis, Aug. 16, 1958, at St. Demetrios Greek Orthodox Church in Astoria.

Andreas graduated from Indiana University. He was a member of Hellenic American Taxpayers and Civic Association of Southold Township (HATCAST). He was also a member of Transfiguration of Christ Greek Orthodox Church in Mattituck, where he was a past president, as well as a past Master Free Mason at the Parthenon Lodge.

Andreas was a self-employed ship owner and consultant for marine transportation with Maria Victoria Naviera Company in Athens, Greece.

He is survived by his wife, Victoria; daughters Maria Markakis of Staten Island, where she works as a teacher, and Carmen St. George of Dix Hills, a judge of the NYS Court of Claims, and her husband, Norman, an administrative judge of Nassau County Law; grandchildren Alexandra St. George and Isabella St. George; and siblings Alexander Markakis of Athens, Greece, George Markakis of Quebec, Canada, and Stavroula Ploumes of New Hyde Park.

Visitors were received April 1 at DeFriest-Grattan Funeral Home in Southold. The Divine Liturgy was celebrated April 2 at Transfiguration of Christ Greek Orthodox Church in Mattituck, officiated by Very Reverend Father Archimandrite Ignatios J. Achlioptas. Interment followed at Southold Presbyterian Cemetery.

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Anne L. Arnold

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Anne L. Arnold passed away peacefully April 8 at the age of 94.She was born July 26, 1924, in Fall River, Mass., to Henry and Elizabeth (Kelley) Lord.

Anne served in the Canadian Women’s Army Corps until she was old enough to transfer to the US WAVES. After being discharged in 1946 she attended Pembroke College in Brown University, graduating in 1950.

She accepted a position with American Metal Company and then Creole in NYC, where she met the love of her life, George. They settled in the home in East Marion that George’s parents had built in 1930. She continued her librarian career as the school librarian at Greenport School from 1964 until she retired in 1986.

Many will remember Anne’s love of giraffes and have seen her collection of over 400 different ones, collected from around the world.

Anne was predeceased by her parents, her husband, and seven of her eight siblings — Frank Lord, Margaret Macomber, Mary Kilby, Vincent Lord, Helen Janick, Joseph Lord and Veronica Lord. Her and George’s infant triplets, Jane, Jean and George Jr., also predeceased her.

She is survived by her daughter, Kathleen Richter (Michael); three grandchildren, Nathaniel Richter, Katherine Diamond (Benjamin) and Elizabeth Richter; and her great-grandson, Johnathan Diamond. In addition, her sister Elizabeth Green survives, as well as numerous nieces and nephews.

Visitors will be received Tuesday, April 16, from 3 to 7 p.m. at Horton Mathie Funeral Home in Greenport. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at 10 a.m. Wednesday, April 17, at St. Agnes R.C. Church in Greenport. Burial will follow at St. Agnes Cemetery.

Memorial donations may be made to John’s Place at St. Agnes or Doctors Without Borders.

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Lisa Raye Finnegan

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Lisa Raye Finnegan of Flagler Beach, Fla., formerly of Southold, died at home March 31. She was 58.

She was born July 12, 1960, in Arlington, Va., to Bonnie Raye and John F. Chizzini.

Lisa was a restaurateur and bartender for several notable Washington, D.C., establishments including The Grand Hotel. She then became vice-president for T.L. Finnegan’s Plumbing and Heating.

Her hobbies were traveling, taking cruises, going to the beach, playing with the kids and her dogs and cats.

Lisa was predeceased by her husband, Tom “Finn” Finnegan, and her father. Lisa is survived by her mother; her son, Ryan Thomas Finnegan; her granddaughter; numerous aunts and cousins; and her significant other, William “Billy” Leviness.

Clymer Funeral Home in Florida assisted the family.

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Bruce J. Lehr

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Bruce J. Lehr of Southold passed away peacefully at his home April 8, 2019. He was 81.He was born Jan. 23, 1938, to Margaret (Smith) and David Lehr.

Bruce served in the military for two years, then became a mechanic for Tryac Truck & Equipment and later at Southold Town Highway Department. He was a 56-year member of Southold Fire Department and a longtime member of the H.H. Franklin Car Club. He enjoyed restoring, driving and showing his antique car collection.

Bruce was predeceased by his brother, Barry, in 2016. He is survived by his sister-in-law, Beverly; his niece, Jean Walters (Louis); his great-nephew, David Kramkowski (Carolyn); his great-niece, Kristin Witczak (Christopher); and his great-great-nieces and -nephews, Kaitlin, Blake, Natalie, Madison and Lukas.

Services will be held in the summer of 2019.

Memorial donations may be made to Southold Fire Department.

DeFriest-Grattan Funeral Home in Southold is assisting the family.

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Roy Cornell Pace

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Roy Cornell Pace was born Aug. 18, 1946, in Cutchogue, N.Y. He was the eighth out of 12 children born to the Rev. Bertis Pace and Lillian Pace.

At an early age he received Christ at Unity Baptist Church of Mattituck.

Roy attended Cutchogue Grammar School and graduated from Mattituck High School. He then joined U.S. Marine Corps and proudly served his country for nearly five years. Roy was in the Vietnam War where he was stationed in Italy and was one out of 100 Marines stationed on the U.S.S. Little Rock. He became a sergeant in 1969 before he was transferred to the reserves.

Roy met the love of his life, Rosetta Pace, at the age of 14. They were married seven years later. From this union, five children were produced. They remained married until his life partner was called to be home with Christ Sept. 29, 2016.

Roy had many jobs before serving a combined 34 years at Jamaica Water Company, which eventually merged with Nassau Water Authority, from which he later retired.

Roy enjoyed taking on household projects at which he was awesome. Plumbing, building and repairing almost anything thrown at him. He enjoyed hunting, fishing and golfing, at which he became his own Tiger Woods.

Roy was a loving father to his children and grandchildren. He was a great friend to all. He took great pride in making sure his success runneth over. He was very stern in raising his children. He gave them the world. Always lending a helping hand to anyone in need. Not only was he a father to his own children, he also became a father to the neighborhood aiding with snow removal, quick plumbing fixes or just simply lending a helping hand. He would always be remembered by his famous pointing finger followed by the word “Pal.”

He loved music; old school soul was his favorite. If you heard Isaac Hayes, you knew to stay clear; that was him in thinking mode. He had many vehicles, from a Mustang to his Lincoln Continental, which he cherished.

On Tuesday, March 12, 2019, Roy C. Pace departed his life to be with his heavenly Father. He was preceded in death by his parents, the Rev. Bertis Pace and Lillian Pace; his three brothers, George, Bertis Jr. and Ronald Pace; his two sisters, Judy Martin and Jean Pace; and the love of his life, Rosetta Pace. He leaves to cherish his memory his five children, Michelle, Roy Jr. (Treva), Lisa, Sean (Kimberly); his baby girl, Rosetta Nicole; his three brothers, Alvin (Addie), Gary and Terry (Tracey); his three sisters, Beatrice De Jesus, Joan Davis (Forrest) and Lorraine Mason; his 10 grandchildren, Jasmine, Sheleyiah, Kimberly, Jayden, Diamond, Lil Roy, Quianna, Korey, Khalil and Kayla; two great-grandchildren, Jailyn and Brooklyn; his three brothers-in-law, Roy Brunson (Juanita), Johnny Brunson (Patricia) and Michael Brunson; one sister-in-law, Patricia Brunson, and a host of nieces, nephews, cousins and friends.

He fought a good fight and has finished his journey and he kept the faith until the end.

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Phyllis Conley

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Phyllis Conley died April 8.

Services will take place Monday, April 15, at 11 a.m. at St. Peter’s Lutheran Church in Greenport followed by interment at Calverton National Cemetery.

Horton-Mathie Funeral Home in Greenport is assisting the family.

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Richard Mark Lupoletti

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Richard Mark Lupoletti of Peconic Landing in Greenport died April 8. He was 88. 

He was born Feb. 25, 1931, to Grace (Leone) and Dante Lupoletti in Brooklyn. 

Mr. Lupoletti earned both bachelors and masters degrees from Brooklyn College and married Joy (Belty) Lupoletti in 1954 in New York. 

He served stateside in the U.S. Army in the 1950s, worked at Baldwin Public Schools as a high school librarian and at Valley Stream Public Schools as high school library director. 

Mr. Lupoletti was affiliated with Group for the East End, East Hampton Trails Preservation Society, League of Women Voters of the Hamptons and Literacy Volunteers of America. 

He was predeceased by his wife in 2015; his twin brother Robert in 2014 and his brother Albert in 2015. He is survived by his daughter, Claudia Lupoletti and her husband Christopher Pietras of Burke, Va.; and his granddaughter, Abby Gacks. 

Services will take place Saturday, April 13, at 11:30 a.m. at Peconic Landing, 1500 Brecknock Road in Greenport with Pastor Bob. 

Memorial donations may be made to East End Hospice.

Horton-Mathie Funeral Home in Greenport assisted the family. 

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Carol Jane (Geddes, Gurin) Coakley

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Carol Jane (Geddes, Gurin) Coakley of Southold, N.Y., formerly of Upper Montclair, N.J., passed away peacefully April 10, 2019, from primary progressive aphasia/dementia in Danvers, Mass., where she had been living in memory care for the past year.

Born Aug. 5, 1940, in Philadelphia, Pa., to her parents, Thomas and Katherine (Lois) Geddes, Carol grew up in Upper Darby, Pa. and graduated from Upper Darby High School.

Carol worked for many years as both a secretary and legal secretary and lived in many different states during her lifetime, including Hawaii. After falling in love with the East End of Long Island, she and her second husband, Edward, along with her daughter and son-in-law, were the founders and owners of the North Fork Bagel Cafe in Mattituck, N.Y. A successful endeavor, they eventually sold the business which continues on today. For her next act, Carol became a licensed real estate broker and property manager.

Carol was an incomparable storyteller. Everyone who knew and loved her can recall many hilarious Carol tales. An avid reader, Carol could often be found devouring several books at one time. She was happiest, however, out in nature. A skilled gardener and passionate birder, Carol was always outside. She ran the New York City Marathon in 1980 and enjoyed daily walks throughout her life. An active member of the North Fork Audubon Society, Carol cared deeply about protecting the environment. A fabulous cook, Carol appreciated a great meal ­— especially if it included bacon and could be washed down with an ice-cold beer! However, spoiling her beloved grandchildren and pets brought her the most joy of all.

She leaves behind her husband, Edward Coakley; her daughter and son-in-law Amy and Alan Hertz; grandchildren Jack and Kate Hertz of Marblehead, Mass.; her son and daughter-in-law, Hugh and Phoebe Gurin of San Francisco, Calif.; her stepchildren and their children Ken and Mickey Coakley (Corinne and Cate), Andrew and Kim Coakley, Kim Coakley DeBoyace (Jack, McKenna, Wyatt, Allison); her sisters Joan Geddes and Gwendolyn Lowe; three nieces; two nephews; and grand-nieces and nephews.

She will be greatly missed by all who knew and loved her.

Special thanks to the kind and caring staff at Seasons of Danvers and Care Dimensions.

Funeral services in New York will be private. Memorial donations may be made to North Fork Audubon Society, P.O. Box 973, Mattituck, NY 11952-0973 and/or Alzheimer’s Association, P.O. Box 96011, Washington, DC 20090-6011.

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Mary Lee Matheson Shanahan

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Mary Lee Matheson Shanahan died peacefully with her family and friends at her side at Hospice House of Pinehurst April 9, 2019. She was 87 years old and, except for this brief illness, she had lived in Southern Pines, N.C., at Penick Village.

Mary Lee was born Oct. 2, 1931, on Long Island, N.Y., to Viola and Martin Matheson. She graduated from the Buckley Country Day School in Great Neck; the Cathedral School of St. Mary in Garden City; Pine Manor Junior College in Wellesley, Mass.; Connecticut College in New London; and the New York School of Interior Design in NYC.

An only child, Mrs. Shanahan is preceded in death by her parents; her husbands Robert D. Larsen, Frank E. Holmes and Captain Thomas L. Shanahan; and her son, Christopher D. Larsen. She is survived by her daughter, Brooke Larsen of Penick Village, Southern Pines, N.C.

Mrs. Shanahan taught kindergarten before her marriage. Afterwards, she enjoyed careers as a Doncaster representative, an interior decorator known as A Better Arrangement, later adding an antique shop to ABA called Open Occasionally.

A dedicated volunteer, she was active in Planned Parenthood; her children’s schools; her churches; No One Dies Alone; Daughters of the American Revolution in N.Y., of which she was still a member; and the Junior League, which gave her friendships she cherished.

A memorial service at Emmanuel Episcopal Church in Southern Pines is planned for April 16, 2019, at 1 p.m., with the burial of her ashes in the church garden near her son and friends. There will be a reception immediately following in the church parish hall.

Memorial donations may be made to Emmanuel Episcopal Church or the Penick Foundation.

Online condolences can be made at bolesfuneralhome.com.

Services were entrusted to Boles Funeral Home of Southern Pines.


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Mary E. Zeballos

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Mary E. Zeballos of Orient Point died April 15 at Stony Brook University Hospital. She was 81.

She was born March 5, 1938, to Mary (Gilroy) and Michael Greene in East Newark, N.J.

Ms. Zeballos attended high school and married Robert Eric Tracey.

She had a 25-year career as a records clerk with Verizon in Newark, N.J. Her family said she enjoyed bird-watching, gardening and appreciating nature.

Ms. Zeballos is survived by her daughter and son-in-law, Lisa and Michael Gillespie of Orient Point.

A memorial service will take place Friday, April 19, at noon at Horton-Mathie Funeral Home in Greenport, Father Roger Joslin officiating.

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Gordon E. Baylis

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Gordon E. Baylis of Greenport, formerly of Huntington, died April 13 at home. He was 94.

He served in the U.S. Army from 1944 to 1946 and graduated from Cornell University in 1949.

He was a member of Grumman Retiree Club and a 30-year member of North Fork United Methodist Church. Family members said he was a history buff who loved gardening, bird-watching and reading.

Predeceased by his son Wayne in 2012, Mr. Baylis is survived by his wife, Ruth (née Thomas), of Greenport; his children Gary, of Connecticut, Lesley Barr of Greenport, Lee, of Ohio, Andrea Barr of Riverhead and William Barr of Washington; six grandchildren; and four great-grandchildren.

Coster-Heppner Funeral Home in Cutchogue assisted the family.

Memorial donations may be made to North Fork United Methodist Church.

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Bruce Christopher Carr

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Bruce Christopher Carr

Bruce Christopher Carr, 66, of Stratford, Conn., died peacefully April 14, 2019, at Bridgeport Hospital with his beloved husband, Harold Watson, at his side. He had fought a valiant, brave struggle against cancer.

Bruce Carr was an extremely socially responsible activist, working on gay, women’s and human rights all his life. He was a pioneer in the fight against the AIDS epidemic. He was active in the Democratic Party and a member of the Stratford Democratic Town Committee.

Bruce was born Aug. 6, 1952, in Cambridge, Mass. He spent most of his youth in Massachusetts and received his B.A. from Hampshire College in Amherst, Mass. After college, Bruce moved to Manhattan and became a sought-after copy editor. He served as the copy chief of Scientific American magazine from 1977 to 1982, creating its style book and copy flow, then moved to Time Inc. in 1983, where much of his career took place. In 1983 he worked on the ill-fated venture TV-Cable Week, the first digitally edited and produced magazine, and, after its demise, on Time magazine, where he was a highly respected copy editor and later copy coordinator for three decades. 

At Time, in addition to his work as a copy editor, Bruce supervised the copy desk, updated the Time style book and fact-checked stories, as well as producing and correcting pages and beta-testing new software for the magazine. With Kelly Knauer, he produced a series of books under Time’s brand on dozens of issues, which were widely popular.

In the late 1980s through the 1990s, Bruce copy edited books for Alfred A. Knopf, among them Nicholas Negroponte’s “Being Digital,” Charles C. Mann and Mark L. Plummer’s “The Aspirin Wars,” Jonathan Weiner’s “The Beak of the Finch” (1995 Pulitzer Prize) and Meryle Secrest’s “Frank Lloyd Wright, A Biography.” 

Bruce met his lifelong love, Harold Doane Watson, in 1981. In 1992 they became registered domestic partners in New York City and they exchanged marriage vows in Connecticut on Dec. 5, 2018. Together they lived a happy and incredibly fortunate life in Manhattan and Orient Point, N.Y. After Bruce retired from Time, and Harold from his second career as an English and theater teacher in New York Public Schools of the South Bronx, they moved to Stratford, Conn. 

To his friends worldwide, who are legion, Bruce was a prince and a gentleman. He was a brilliant and unfailingly kind man, generous with his time and effort, honest, straightforward, funny, devoted, graceful. He was a supporter of the arts, particularly photography, and assisted many young artists, particularly female, in their careers; some of his collection has been donated to the Yale University Art Gallery. He was beautiful inside and out. As a friend wrote, “We shall not see his like again.” 

He is survived by his husband, Harold Watson; his mother-in-law, Betty Lou Crossland; his brothers, John and Charles Carr; and by sisters and brothers from Harold’s family; as well as many beloved nieces and nephews on both sides of the family. 

Bruce was predeceased by his parents, Charles and Virginia (Powers) Carr, and by his father-in-law, James A. (“Pop”) Clawson. 

A memorial service for Bruce Christopher Carr will be held at Galello-Luchansky Funeral Home, 2220 Main St., Stratford, on Wednesday, April 24, 2019, from 11 a.m. to 1 p.m. followed by refreshments nearby from 1 to 3 p.m. at the Olde Dog Tavern, 2505 Main St. At a later date, Bruce’s ashes will be scattered privately at Race Point on Cape Cod. 

In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation online to the Smilow Cancer Hospital and Yale Cancer Center Closer to Free Fund in Bruce’s name, at closertofree.com/give.aspx. 

To celebrate a life, please visit galellofuneralhome.com.

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